Cliffs before i even tell the story: -Dated Girl for 1 year, 4 months (give or take a couple weeks). -She dumps me a week after formal event with her social group. -Leaves that Sunday for a Mock UN thing that goes for 2 weeks, and hooks up with some random guy... and get sick afterwards -Disappears for another 2 weeks or so for assorted family travel. here's where it gets interesting. during those 2 weeks she's disappeared, we had 2 arguments via facebook message hsugh: i know but she didnt want to actually talk to me), and one of those arguments was an accusation that i cheated on her (i didnt). THEN she starts talking to me (instant messaging) again. For the sake of cliffs i'm just gonna... well cliffs 1st convo: Ex talks about her little sister and the fact that said little sister is a whore. I tell her how whorish little sister was rude to me at a chance occurance and she gets defensive... i go on defensive in return and put up my little shell. We change subjects, she tells me a story about her ex bf (the one before me) when she went out with him. and tells me where she's gonna b the next morning. i take the hint and show up where she is... it turns into an akward wave on her part and we both leave. 2nd convo: we talk about akward wave, she talks about her friends, then complains about her lame parties. I be nice and say that i liked her parties ( i did) and she just complains more about her friends. I hold back from saying "yeah your friends suck" which i said only once and i was tripping on LSD at the time. 3rd convo: she initiates convo. complains about how she has no friends, leaves. OT: I loved her so much. At one point I thought she was the one. She dumps me out of nowhere, breaks my heart, and Its been almost 2 months and I miss her terribly. I fought with her about being able to talk to her ( I wanted to stay friends with her) and she's obliging in the wrong way, and complaining to me like i was still with her and was obligated to put up with her whining. what do i do?