Why do I still love her? My wife of four years lied and cheated on me, even though shes the one that would have nightmares about me cheating on her. She lied about it until I checked her call logs. She tells me shes confused and then says she wants a divorce. She told me she loves me. Thats obviously a lie. She said she wanted a kid with me, so I stopped using condoms, she stopped the pill(or so I thought) and she got pregnant, and we now have a 3 1/2 year old daughter. Just yesterday I found out that was a lie. She was still on birth control but didnt say anything because she was scared. She wants me to be her best friend. Not just for our daughter, but because she "needs" me, yet wont spend more than 5 minutess on the phone with me and spends hours talking to this other guy. WHY THE FUCK DO I STILL LOVE HER?!?!?