She's come before...

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  1. theaznfunk

    theaznfunk B-boy fanatic

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    My gf used to come so easily before from sex, but lately she can't bring herself to orgasm by that. She's tried and wanted to do so, but I have to finish her with oral now. I think it's all mental because she's had little to no problem whatsoever coming from intercourse in the past. Any tips/suggestions for getting her over the hump?
     
  2. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    You are going to have to change things up.
    You are right. It more than likely is all in her head.
    The same old sex gets boring and the adrenaline rush isn't the same as it used to be. Make things exciting.

    Try doing it in a place where you are more likely to get caught doing it. I'm not saying out in public in the middle of the day, but get creative and make things a little more dangerous. Like the beach at night. If you don't have a beach near by, go camping in a tent and do it there. It's safer than the produce section of the grocery store at 4pm, and yet there is still that excitement that someone could be hearing you or even seeing you.

    Another thing might be, watch some porn together and try something you haven't done before. I'm not saying go find another guy so you can tag-team her. But just see if you get any new ideas. Done everything in that porn already? Watch it for a while and see if it turns you both on even more.

    Not into either? Plan a trip. Get a room. Lay the romance on as thick as possible. Candlelight and roses. Nice music. Dress nice. Smell good.
    Lay it on as thick as you can.


    Tried all that?

    Try to do everything but sex. Just once. Go and hour, maybe even two, just teasing each other. Don't give in, just build up that anticipation. Then decide to stop for a while. The next time, do the same thing for a couple of hours, then engage. This should have you both built up for blowing each other up.


    Last of all. Is she taking care of herself when you are not around?
    Can she get herself off? Someone who is trained and conditioned to climaxing usually can do it a lot easier.

    Same works for guys, except the opposite. Guys condition themselves to last longer by conditioning themselves to do so.

    If it is completely up to you to make her climax, then something is wrong.
    There is nothing wrong with getting a little help from your SO.
    So talk to her and see what would help her the most, if she doesn't know, then she needs to find out more than you do.
     
  3. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Sounds to me like she's got a thing for you giving her oral. What's wrong with that?
     
  4. theaznfunk

    theaznfunk B-boy fanatic

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    Yep, it was all in her head. Some things were bothering her and she took her mind off those issues, resulting in a splendid orgasm. Thanks guys!
     
  5. timekiller3636

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    suck it up and keep up the humpin!
     
  6. JJM Enterprises

    JJM Enterprises New Member

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    B--i--n--g--oooooooooooooo!!!
     
  7. Teutonic27

    Teutonic27 OT Supporter

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    maybe she doesn't love you anymore.

    seriously, i knew my long term relationship was over when the gf stopped cumming.

    girl cum is emo
     
  8. Abomb

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    girl cum is emo

    /weak
     

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