sheesh, so confused now

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  1. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    so the girl i was dating for 6 months or so....we initially hit it off unbelievably well, then she had all these other dudes after her constantly (buying flowers, dresses, writing love letters etc) & it caused fights & ultimately we broke up. didnt talk for several weeks..

    then last night she was over til almost 4 in the morning & everything was perfect like when we first started talking....we didnt do anything, but just talked laughed a lot & snuggled on the couch.

    she first makes a comment on how she could never be w/ me again b/c of everything that had happened (fights & how i act when drinking).....then i say "well i just want you happy, so you should go out w/ the doctor who is after you" & she says "well what if im happy here with you".... right after she said we could never be together again. then she says "it'd be so hard on me if you ever moved on..." and we were saying how we missed eachother a lot & had fun etc...

    how do i take this? deep down do you think she hopes we get back together (she initially said, when we first startd talking, that i was the first guy in her life that she felt like she could marry)
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    do you want to get back together with her? i know after last night, you are remembering all the good times, but that doesnt mean the problems you had are solved.

    from the way you made things sound, it would be best to stay away

    so, to answer your question, who cares if she wants to get back together? it shouldnt matter because you should stay away from her
     
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    k624ash New Member

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    she sounds like she wants attention, from everyone
     
  4. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes: I won't bother giving advice since you apparently never follow it.
     
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  6. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Sounds to me like you need to assess your drinking habits and determine if they are healthy or not.

    She's mirroring things back to you (women are pretty good at that) that you need to take stock of in your life. Pay attention to that stuff and make a decision about what you should do (if anything).
     
  7. pharcyde92

    pharcyde92 New Member

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    im sure you are aware of the things she done while you were away. Dont fall for it.
     
  8. ldaggerl

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    your leading to fail, it didn't work out the first time for a reason.
     
  9. saosko

    saosko OT Supporter

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    Don't even bother, unless you are planning on fucking, fleeing and forgetting.
     
  10. JamesL

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    Dude... I don't care how incredibly hot this nba dancer girl is, you need to abandon ship! Clearly, she isn't going to change. And things between yall aren't going to change.

    If you get back together, you are just going to be making another thread a month or two from now, asking if the Vag would put up with their SOs texting the opposite sex all the time, etc, etc.

    Time to move on.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Run. Run and Dont Look Back.
     
  12. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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  13. GanglyGoodness

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    You're her security blanket.
     
  14. bowrofl

    bowrofl New Member

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    :rofl: Well put... it's true though. You both want different things from each other.... follow the advice given so far, move on
     
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    Vysion New Member

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    Sounds like she's a female player...
     
  16. trevor72

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    try NOT being available sometime when she want's to chill, see how she reacts and re-evaluate
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It wont matter.

    This girl is young, hot and has a ton of male admirers.

    She's not ready to settle down. If TS was smart, he'd move on again for real.
     

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