She won't tell me to FOAD and she won't say goodbye Had a blowout with my married girlfriend a couple of years ago. She's in a screwed up marriage. Bad one but she hangs on for the sake of her two kids. I got fed up with the entire deal and broke up with her. I hurt her pretty badly when I did it.. Then about 6 months later we started talking but only contact was by email or IM. No phone contact or contact in person at all. She told me she forgave me and still loved me and would aways love me. She went into the hospital for a minor surgery but since she was scared to death I was worried for her. She tells everyone she is OK but me. then disappears. Then for months posts photos and song lyrics to me at another forum which theme is that we will be together again. My birthday comes around I email her some photos taken with my famuily and friends. Not a word -- NADA. Someone posted some nasty message to someone on a forum which she knew I might take as coming from her. She leaves a message that she didn;t do it. Why would she care. If she was disappearing, why bother? Still she won't talk to me on phone or see me in person. Then blam - she just freaking disappears off of the face of the earth. No FOAD or goodbye nothing....... I asked her a few times why she didn't say goodbye or whatever, she told me she couldn't she loved me.. I was sorry about what happened and I care about her but this game playing with messages on internet forums has really turned me off. i told her it owuld lead to misunderstandings and problems. I guess it did. Anyone got a clue why she just didnt tell me FOAD or goodbye? I can't figure it out. I wouldn't have been upset.