She was "talking" to another guy while we first started dating...

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  1. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    So, there was this girl that I was kind of chasing after. Then one day I told her I liked her (which didn't turn into a mistake fuckers :fawk: ). Then the next day we went out, she kind of brushed me off by telling me that she was talking to someone back from her homestate (half the country away in Minnessota). She calls me 4 days later and basically asks me out. :)

    Anyway, everything has been good since. It seems like we're building something worthwhile. But, what happened to Minnesota dude? I'm really curious. Should I ask her? Should I wait?

    I'm thinking about asking her when we've built a stronger relationship (only dating about 1 month) where we may be closer to BF-GF status. Any opinions?

    thanks! :)
     
  2. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    I would ask. The sooner the better. That way there is no "Has he been waiting this whole time to ask this? :ugh"
     
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    that is a hot av. makes my whiskers twitch a little
     
  4. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    Thanks. Bender is so sexxxy.
     
  5. giz

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    don't ever ask :rofl:
     
  6. Kev07

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    :rofl: giz AV
     
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    themolsen New Member

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    WHHHYYY would you ask? Obviously he's not in the picture of she's into you. IF you ask, make it casual and very light-hearted... maybe during a tickle session
     
  8. MissKitty

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    I don't understand this 'Don't ask, Don't tell' mind set American's seem to have.
    If in asking you cause something bad to happen, then she isn't the right person for you
     
  9. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    People said it was a huge mcsteak to tell her I liked her too. :dunno:
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Dude, first you are insecure about the fact that she did coke 5 years ago, now you are stressing over the fact that like any red-blooded young woman she entertained the idea of 2 different guys while single?

    Be honest with yourself, do you want to single-handedly ruin the relationship before it even starts?
     
  11. giz

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    all it does is display his insecurity
     
  12. giz

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    it probably was
     
  13. MissKitty

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    Or his interest in her and who she is. His desire to understand her. His desire to know what head space she is in coming into the relationship with.

    This wouldn't be a threadable issue for me. I would simply ask
     
  14. giz

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    I wouldn't ever show my interest in somebody by asking about other dudes :rofl: doesn't even make sense to me
     
  15. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    How someone acts towards other guys is a good idea of how she will treat you.
     
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    Fachh New Member

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    I woudn't ask
     
  17. Falconer

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    ask.

    better to find out the truth now than to fall in love with her now and then 2 years from now finding out that she used to let him fuck her in the ass and cum on her face but she'll only do missionary with you.
     
  18. giz

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    what exactly is he asking her here? :hsugh:
     
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    If you really have to know just casually ask. If you don't make a big deal out of it then chances are she won't either.
     
  20. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    "So whatever happened with the guy from Minnessota?"

    harmless, casual, easy.
     
  21. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    be careful. like some say "curiosity killed the cat" :dunno:
     
  22. Falconer

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    He's finding out about the nature of her relationship with a guy she was "talking" to.

    btw lol @ your animated av :rofl:
     
  23. giz

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    you have been dating for one month but you're not bf/gf? wtf
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Answer needed.
     
  25. M.A. Malone Esq.

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    Maybe. I usually don't feel comfortable in relationships. :o
     

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