So, there was this girl that I was kind of chasing after. Then one day I told her I liked her (which didn't turn into a mistake fuckers ). Then the next day we went out, she kind of brushed me off by telling me that she was talking to someone back from her homestate (half the country away in Minnessota). She calls me 4 days later and basically asks me out. Anyway, everything has been good since. It seems like we're building something worthwhile. But, what happened to Minnesota dude? I'm really curious. Should I ask her? Should I wait? I'm thinking about asking her when we've built a stronger relationship (only dating about 1 month) where we may be closer to BF-GF status. Any opinions? thanks!