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  1. thoughtshewas18

    thoughtshewas18 OT Supporter

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    I guess the Vaginarium is full of teenies,:rolleyes: so here's a re-post. I've been seeing this chick for a little while now. The sex is good, no complaints on either end. But, as alot of you may well know, communication is key to a healthy and fun sex life. I've been finding out more and more that she really does like it "rough." Besides pounding harder or thrusting aggresively, do you guys have any suggestions that could make it more "rough?" Keep in mind she is pretty open with some freaky stuff... Pretty much all the basic things you can do (pulling hair, choking, spanking) I've done, but I want to be more firm.. Does that mean I should practically toss her as I change from doggystyle to missionary, making more fluently aggresive moves? Sure. But, I know shes craving submission and I need to find more ways to let her know that she is about to be dominated and get destroyed. I dont want to hear use whips or more toys, because I have. I'm looking for tips on more aggresive physical moves before foreplay and sex or during..
     
  2. ShoverBot

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    id just be forcefull, if you want to fuck, just strait up tell her "lets go i wana fuck" then grab her by the neck or something and drag her to bed, make her undress you then shove your dick down her throat, just use her to your wim and fancy
     
  3. NJGuy

    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    First thing...
    Talk to her and agree on a safe word.
    A word that will only be spoken when things go too far.
    Anything... Something not too hard to say because it might be hard for her to say supercalafragalisticexpialadotious when you choking her.

    Guava... pink bananas... anything.

    Then just go at it.
    Explore. Toss that bitch around.
    Smack her around until she says the word so you know her boundaries.
    Get smacked around a bit yourself too.

    But im sure she is just your typical chick and like the typical stuff.

    Tussle with her naked. Wrestle around trying to pin each other down. Dont be too dominant. Make sure you let her get the advantage of you once in awhile.

    One of my ex's liked to have escape rape sex. Thats what I called it.
    Where she would try everything in her power to not let me fuck her (besides hurting me like mashing my nuts...ect ect)
    Light hits... light bites...Clamping her legs shut... pushing me off... squirming away... Moving her pelvis at angles to make insertion hard.
    Id get it in a few times, shed knock it out. Id put it in her face and in her mouth for a bit then she would spit it out and turn her face and try to get away.

    You know I was never into that type of thing...
    But on the few times we did it I came so fast once I was inside her it was unreal. For me thats a big deal... it normally takes a long time before I can nut.
    But we would fight sometimes for a good 30 minutes before I wore her out and the sex started. Even them she would squirm and make me hold her hips down.

    Edit... http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0399146/ This movie has a great!!! example of escape sex. Minus the hitting and such its pretty good. When she finds out her husband really is a killer and the have sex UP the stairs. I remember watching it made me think of the fun times with my ex.

    hehehe... typing this up is bringing back memories of her. =(
    I do mis her, lol

    Oh, one of my other ex's who was raped and molested by her father used to BEG me to rape her. Like one night put on a mask, break into her place, and rape her on the bed, and NOT let her know it was me. She wanted me to fuck her hard and make her sore. Smack her around and cum in her. This was she would ask me to do.

    Iw as young then.. I remember in a way it made me mad.
    Because it she ever did get raped for real I know she would enjoy it deep down.

    ahhh, I miss her too... she was such a great fuck.
    a cheating slut of course, which is why I had to let her go no matter how much she cried, begged, threw up, and grovled... but such a great fuck.
    She also used to never sweat... no matter how hot it was or how much we fucked... never would she sweat profusely from one area of her body or another like a normal person would. Her whole body would just become moist. Everything. Neck, hands, lets, back, waist... She would just become slick... and glisten but never sweat.

    Anyway.. im rambling now.

    This one chick I dated was the ugly duckling in highschool girl who bloomed big time after and became a club slut goddess ecstasy freak. I dated her during the transition phase =)
    Her fantasies revolved around what I like to call "pick up sex"
    When you pick them up and fuck them.
    Like your in the kitchen making out on the table. Start banging her on the table. Pick her up and fuck her across the kitchen and slam her into the fridge. Then bend her over the sink... the throw her against a wall and fuck her from behind while you press her face against the wall.
    She loooved to be thrown around. She used to ask me to really toss ehr as and slam her into the walls and shit. I never did. We were jsut dating and not that serious.
    I couldnt get the heart up to do that to her.
    Pickup sex works best with tiny thin girls BTW lol

    All and all ... just improvise. Do it for her and you might find you like it too.
    Dont be afraid to go too far... Thats what the safe word it for.
    She or you say the safe word... STOP EVERYTHING.
    Talk... then begin again.

    Sometimes you might goto far and hurt her.
    She might cry... or run off to the bathroom and cry or something.
    As long as you guys talked about this and your doing it for her she wont hate you. If something like that happens just give her time to cool down and think it through. Try not to feel bad that she is in the bathroom crying. Hell it could be you invoked memories she needs to deal with and its nothing that you did directly. Jsut let her be and dont try to fix her. Trust me... you almost will want something like that to happen because she will fuck you like a goddess the next day.
     
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  4. NJGuy

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    Damn.. it... now I cant stop thinking about one of my exs.
    I keep see this time when we were wresting naked and it turned into escape sex...
    We struggled for a bit. I got close to insertion a few times then I got inside of her.
    She slipped away and started crawling across my carpet. She almost got away but I just barely snagged her by the angle and started to drag her back towards me. I got up on my knees and pulled her into me by her leg. Her one leg slipped between my legs while I pulled her by the other one. Putting the excess over my shoulder. Kind of like how one would pull a large hose or something. It was splitting her legs open so she couldn't clamp shut. Then I was able to get ahold of her hips. The whole time she was digging her fingers into the carpet using it as leverage to pull her self away.

    Once I got ahold of her hips it was over. He legs where separated and her pussy was aligned perfectly. Once I inserted she struggled to pop me out but there was nothing she could do. I had that ass locked. After about 20 or so pumps I blew my load inside her as deep as I could. I couldn't stand it. It was so fucken intense.

    I remember laying back with her and smoking after (I was a smoker back then YUCK) thinking that must be how a rapists feel. They must be part of what they like about it. The struggle. There is something very very instinctive about it.
     
  5. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    have you sat down and talke dto her outside the sexual Situations and established EXACTLY what she's looking for?
     
  6. Muad

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    My current girlfriend likes it when I force her to suck my cock. By hair pulling, holding her head, etc.

    Communication is the key though, you don't want to take it too far if she's not into it.
     
  7. thoughtshewas18

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    Well we havent really sat down "persae" and talked about it. It's been little hints here and there. She's not my girlfriend, and I'm not even that into her, but the sex is fun and is getting wilder every time. Communication is key and I've found that the best sex is definately when both parties know what each other likes and dislikes. I dont want to flat out ask her exactly how "rough" she wants me to be, Id rather surprise her. I dont want her to see it coming, I think it'll add to the experience for her. But, I know I cant just straight up donkey punch her ass! :mamoru: Everything in moderation..
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Does the roughness turn you on, or are you neutral?
     
  9. thoughtshewas18

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    Id say I'm neutral....
     
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    Try pushing her face into the pillow with your hand....hard. Put your fingers in her mouth and make her choke, pull her lips etc. Slap her breasts (and pussy) :) :dunno:
     
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    Light (or hard) slaps to the face FTW. Degrade her, make her walk around on all fours then fuck her on the floor like the animal she is. Really take control of the situation. Don't let her tell you anything that you should do. Punish her if she is not doing something right.
     
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    NJGuy, that's fucking hot.
     
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    im turned on reading this thread :wiggle::naughty:
     
  14. thoughtshewas18

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    -UPDATE-

    So chicky comes over last night.. I started off by teasing her, because she was hornier than I was. I'd play with her pussy a little bit, but the Suns/Lakers game was on and aout of nowhere I would just stop. By the time the game was over (GO SUNS) she was begging me to fuck her. From the get go I let her know that she was about to be abused.. I think she was a little jealous that I was teasing her earlier, so when I went to take her shirt off, she kept trying to cross her arms. I told her I was gonna rip her shirt off. As soon as she said, "No you wo.." BAM! I aint gonna tell u twice and I tore that shit straight down.($40 Hollister shirt:mamoru: ) I could tell she was getting wetter and wetter.. From there on it was just gravy. Id grab her hard by the mouth and when she'd scream I'd cover her mouth with my palm and tell her to shut the fuck up as I pounded harder and harder. Followed up with tit/ass/pussy slapping with my dick and-or hand. So we fucked for about 45 minutes and the fukn condom was annoying me. So I threw on another one and bent her over my desk (the one im typing on now, mmmmm) and rammed my cock in her. Immediatly the fukn comdom broke and I was like wtf. I didnt have any more in the hosue, but I had some in the car. She told me to get it, and I said fuck that, lets go screw in the car. She was down, but unfortunately my backseat was just a little bit to small to get really good leverage or to be somewhat comfortable. I thought we were gonna just go back inside and continue, but we didnt get that far. We ended up dropping but naked in my driveway fucking for like an hour on the cement. My knees were a little banged up, but it was definately a fun "fukn" time.

    I think the thrill of being caught was a major turn on for me.:wiggle:
     
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    thoughtshewas18 OT Supporter

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    I've also been turned into a vampire.. You should se some of the marks I left on her body..:naughty:
     
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    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    After reading all teh comdon crap... im thinking "you pussy just go raw"

    Then i read that and im like :h5:
     
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    :bowdown:

    Great developments, keep us posted!
     
  18. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    awesome!!! :bowdown: Good job!
     
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    :bigthumb: Hawt :drool:
     
  20. thoughtshewas18

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    I've always had problems with finding comdoms that I like.. In the past I was under the impression that a thicker condom would help u last longer and that something like "ultra sensitive" would do the opposite. Weirdly enough though, it was like the exact opposite for me. So I've always questioned which condoms to use FTW. Recently I was at a porn shop and this chick showed me Durex: Performax.. All I can do is :bowdown: , because that shit rocks! It doesnt take any pleasure out of it (for me), and I feel like I could fuck for hours more than before. Chicky told me to cum last night and I literally had to bang her like a fucking horse to even get close. It resulted in one of the best orgasms her and I have ever had..

    I guess the condom has benzocaine in the tip, which acts as a desensitizing lubricant.
     
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    I've used one of those desensitizing condoms before, and never again. I felt absolutely nothing. I could've been fucking those meat slicer things they have at delis and I wouldn't have felt anyhthing.
     
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    Ya for some it could have that effect. I think as long as your not a pussy about it and bang like a wild man, it's not that bad.. More for the fast and hard fucks..:bigthumb:
     
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    Radiohead Everything in its right place...

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    don't let her talk :naughty: if she tries to, cover her mouth. or tey holding her hands together above her head so she can't get away :dunno: i like it
     

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