Shallow People? Thoughts

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  1. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    Well I've been single for the last two years now but before that i had a gf of 2 1/2 years (long distance) she broke up with me. We are still good friends but after we broke up i kind of slowly developed a bad habit i guess you can call it. Well recently it just has hit me, I'm pretty shallow. At first my friends thought i was just picky but after i told them the reason why i don't like a girl it could be for the smallest reasons they said i was shallow. When i was w/ my ex i was never like this. Any advice to help me fix this problem?
     
  2. Toxicity

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    I'm not shallow. Im just attracted to really hot girls.

    But seriously, theres no helping it bro.. i tried to cure myself, but nothing worked.
     
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    yea i dont think there are much you can do about it...i think this could be your "recession" after last your relationship...
     
  4. dscallaway69

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    hey it is part of being a guy. ninety percent of guys are shallow it is in our blood. You can try and fight it but being shallow always wins out in the in.
     
  5. hayte997

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    I'm the same way, James. The smallest things will totally turn me off to that girl. Even if she wears a goofy outfit one day I'll lose interest. (I know, I know, I'm a POS)
    I'm very shallow. My friend dates the ugliest girls there is and I just don't get how he doesn't realize they are ugly? My buddy talks about having sex with his GF and makes it out to be like he's having sex with a supermodel.. If I was with the girls he dates, I wouldn't admit having sex with them and I especially wouldn't take them out in public. I know that sounds really bad but that's just the way I am..
     
  6. AmCo

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    lol i feel the exactly same way! the smallest things turn me off. the way i see it is i want someone who i can be almost 100%(impossible i know) head over heels for. I guess i really don't like to settle for second best.

     
  7. hayte997

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    Yep.... And the thing is, I can admit I'm not perfect but for some reason I feel I should be dating a robotic perfect supermodel. Damn I'm shallow!
    I'm not an asshole to ugly people though.
     
  8. BradUF

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    I dont need a super hot girl. Just Avrg and above.
     
  9. chica&buddies

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    :dunno: my philosophy is to treat people the way i want to be treated. i know that i'm not perfect, even though my name may say i am ;). there are positives about everyone, imo...

    seems to me, though it may not be the extreme, that you guys boost your self esteem by ragging on others.

    :rant2: whatever happened to all the nice people? :mad: /tangent
     
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    k0in b4hd New Member

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    let em be shallow, its only to their disadvantage
     
  11. AmCo

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    Its hard to find nice people these days. You make it seem like you never ragged on anyone before. Some more than others.

     
  12. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    :rofl: :werd:
     
  13. D

    D A guiltless state of self awareness.. The process

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    My thoughts are that all shallow people should have to experience what it's like to have nothing, nowhere to go, & nobody to help them. Just long enough to gain some perspective. My other thought is that it's sad.
    I hope some compassion, & mental clarity lands in your laps.
    That doesn't necessarily pertain to what you choose to bed with. Beautiful women are a dime a dozen in an age where money can purchase beauty. Someone once said love is a trick of lighting. The bitch of it is, we all get old. Even if your outsides look plastic perfect, odds are you are slowly rotting on the inside.
    But, meh, best of luck to you all. *shrug*
     
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    Maybe you guys have been watching too much porn and it's fucked up your perception of what a girl is supposed to look like. :dunno:
     
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    Yea, you've got to turn this thing around!

    Get a new job. Hang out at new places. eat new food. Read a book you would normally not read.

    You need to DO things you would otherwise, normally no do.
     

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