Sent someone flowers.....

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  1. phuree

    phuree New Member

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    Sent a girl I'm dating and somehow it turned into an issue.

    To quote her "it wasn't necessary but thanks"

    wtf?
     
  2. Ford4Life

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    How is that an issue? She probably likes them.
     
  3. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Need more details. Out of context that quote could mean anything.
     
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    especially tone of voice.
     
  5. phuree

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    This is how the convo went via text.

    Me: Did you get a delivery, Barbie? (I signed the card Ken)
    Her: ummm yes, so it was you?
    Me: Am I in trouble?
    Her: Yes
    Me: Srsly? How?
    30 min passes
    Me: Considering only you and I know, how am I in trouble?
    Her: You shouldn't have gotten me flowers
    Me: Why?
    Her: It wasn't necessary, but thank you
    Me: Flowers are never necessary unless its a wedding or funeral. I just thought it would be a nice surprise. Sorry if i embarrassed you.
    Her: You didn't embarrass me, thank you it was very thoughtful.


    now wtf did i do lol
     
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    vodkacollins New Member

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    yeah

    was she a bitch when she said it, or was she using a nice tone?

    also, flowers for no reason? what type of flowers?
     
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    are you sure you are dating her? and for how long?
     
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    do you take her seriously than she takes you? No offense, just sounds like you're more into her than she is you.
     
  9. phuree

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    Thats what i sent
     
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    Nm, now I know why she said it.
     
  11. phuree

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    ouch. :squint:
     
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    Did you send them to her work or something?
     
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    That's tough. Since it was text I still can't even tell if she was being playful or serious. I'd lean towards playful, but maybe it actually bugged her for some reason. I can't tell from that.

    I will say though that when I buy my gf flowers for no reason she'll say it wasn't necessary, but was nice or whatever. That's kind of a standard reaction, I think. Of course she is my girlfriend. If this girl is just someone you are dating, then she might not be as happy to get something like that. Could scare off the other dude she's interested in, you know?
     
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    yeah to her work. I sent them because its her first day back to the office after being gone for a week.
     
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    I'm guessing that's what the problem is
     
  16. phuree

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    The ken thing serves a purpose as I cant sign my name.
     
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    thats fucked up. its his intentions that count.

    edit: lol everything wrong with the guy and not the girl.
     
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    how long have you been dating?
     
  19. phuree

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    on and off for 6 mo
     
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    $10 says you are about to be off again
     
  21. Bob Brown

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    yea the sending at work thing prob wasn't the best, plus for just a random occasion such as that, she might've been freaked out and/or confused by it
     
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    If you aren't a stupid bitch, its the thought that counts.



    It might have became some big deal in her office, and maybe she was embarrassed because of how people treated her because of it.
     
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    did you see her while she was away from work last week?
     
  25. phuree

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    check your pm
     

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