So I've been seeing this girl for quite a while (for about 4 months now). Everything has been going well. The communication is there, the interests are there, the physical attraction is more than there. Only thing I found strange was the fact that when it came down to talking about sex she was fine except when we spoke about her favorite sexual positions, what she likes, dislikes, etc. She would start to become very evasive and completely disregard the question. Now, as we all know, sex is important... It's extremely important to me. I like to know what pleases my SO and what doesnt. I come to find out that the reason why she evades questions about her sexual likes and dislikes is because she was molested as a child. She went into detail and told me that it happened for years and even though it never led to anything more than being fondled and groped she never told anyone. At first I was I decided to let her talk about what she likes, dislikes when shes a little more comfortable talking about it. Im just upset that A) It feels as if I'm building a rocket ship with no instructions (other than playing it by ear) B) Worried that this might develop serious relationship problems in the future due to lack of communication or "baggage" C) The level of communication isnt where Id like it to be. Have any of you guys ever gone through this? What are your thoughts?