Self Conscious

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  1. Scott7

    Scott7 New Member

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    My girl is very self conscious. She has a great body but she never likes to be seen naked. And i'm the exact opposite. I walk around naked when i change or whatever. When she gets out of the shower she doesn't like changing in front of me. And if she does she puts her undies and pants on with the towel still on and then take the towel off. She doesn't mind showing her top all that much. She likes the lights off during sex which is fine by me but you gotta change it up a bit ya know.

    Anyone have any advise? I try to make her feel sexy in many ways. I tell her she's gorgeous all the time because she really is.

    She's 5'4" and weighs like 108lbs.
     
  2. Ben

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    Talk to her about it if it really bothers you.
     
  3. [HRT]Squirrel Master

    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    the more comfortable you make her feel..... the easier it will be for her... things like that just take time and patients. Why would you rush things... hell your having sex aren’t you!
     
  4. dscallaway69

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    Yeah man this is something that does not have a over night remedy. Just be patient and over time just try and make her feel a little more comfortable. I would think the first step here is maybe try and have sex with the lights and and then go from there.
     
  5. Cerridwen

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    It isn't anything that you can change about her, those are her own 'demons'. The only thing you can do is make her more comfortable with her body. Even if you're joking, do NOT put her down! She sounds thin as it is. Just compliment her and try to boost her self esteem :)
     
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    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    isnt that what I said?:ugh:
     
  7. Cerridwen

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    :ugh: I was agreeing with you.
     
  8. [HRT]Squirrel Master

    [HRT]Squirrel Master New Member

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    ohh :wavey:

    ha ha....
     
  9. RockChick

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    yeah i have to agree with the others. give her enough time to loosen up, be patient.

    i remember when my bf and i got to know each other better ;)... i was always thinking things like "OMG!!!!!!! im naked... around him!!!!! hopefully he likes me the way i am"
     
  10. purplebeast

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    Get a dimmer on for ur lights. So you can gradually increase the brightness. And everychange you get show her and tell her how beatiful you think she is.
     
  11. Scott7

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    We've been dating for a little over 4 years now lol

    I thought about this 2 years ago and she is still the same. O well i guess. I love her so i can live with it.
     
  12. RockChick

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    p within a month, others need a year... your gf needs even longer. i'm guessing it has something to do with the way she was raised but i dunno.

    i think its great that you love her and accept her the way she is! :)
     
  13. RockChick

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    damn quick reply....

    my first sentence was supposed to look like that:

    everyone is different, some people loosen up within a month....
     
  14. beatlegeuce

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    Tie her to the bed and blindfold her :). Im serious i read it in a magizine or something. Aww the good old days.
     

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