Self concious about my size....

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  1. s2kguy

    s2kguy New Member

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    It's gotten so bad that I blow off girls just because I'm a bit self concious about my performance and size. I have never had any complaints at all, any advice?
     
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    well, think of it this way... its the only dick size your gonna get so make the best of it.
     
  3. huntz0r

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    If you've never had any complaints... why are you stressing yourself out over it?
     
  5. s2kguy

    s2kguy New Member

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    I haven't really had time for females because of work, This lady works in my office and she's coming on to me realllly strong.
     
  6. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    I realize this is personal, but how small are you?
     
  7. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: making a thread like this without posting your size is pointless
     
  8. s2kguy

    s2kguy New Member

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    6 1/2

    I realize that's average, but I'm a pretty slim guy so it's pretty thin
     
  9. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Oh honey it could be SO MUCH WORSE than just being slim ;)

    Don't worry about it! Have confidence in yourself and it will work wonders :)
     
  10. s2kguy

    s2kguy New Member

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    Thank you.
     
  11. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    really, dont worry. thats about perfect :o



    plus, girls are told 5 is 7'' all their life...so really, youre lookin at 8 1/2 '' ;)
     
  12. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I wouldn't worry, if you were like 1" this be a different story.
     
  13. Tony Victory

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    When I was younger I'll admit I was thrown off what was average due to the Porn aspect, I'm about 6.5-7" and realise after countless sex that it's more than enough to get the job done, it's all in your head mate.

    Also if you want to get your confidence up maybe work on other aspects such as getting better at giving oral, nothing gets me more excited than a girls legs convulsing and squeezing the hell out of my head :)
     
  14. Two toys

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    I'm not that thick either, but i'm about that length maybe a little longer. Honestly I was self concious at first about it.. but then I had sex for the first time... aha I don't care how small my dick was I'd try to get laid all the time no matter what. I could see maybe having a problem if you were 3 inches or something.. because I've heard girls complain about that. I think there are more issues than what you are saying, you have some type of commitment issue or bad experience and you are just using your "small dick" as an excuse.

    I've never had a complaint, I've heard plenty of girls say that it was the perfect size or big (and actually meant it), even been with a girl that my dick just would not fit inside. I've given girls the "best sex of their life".. if i can do it with a skinny dick so can you.
     
  15. Two toys

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    maybe you are gay?
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ummm, 6 1/2 is nothing to be worried about
     
  17. [DWI]

    [DWI] Master of Nothing

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    The only thing you have to worry about if you truly are "slim" is finding a place that sells snugger fitting condoms.
     
  18. Chris90210

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    Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
     
  19. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    I asked my wife how long she thought mine was, and she said 8 or 9.

    If you are confident about your penis, she will feel good about it, guaranteed.

    Check out the thread linked above if you haven't already.
     
  20. huntz0r

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    Oh give me a fucking break :rofl:

    You are above average in length.
     
  21. Falconer

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    6.5" is not average. It's above average. There was a huge study done. Google it.
     
  22. wallydog11

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    yet i love how appearently everyone on ot is 6.5-7" :rofl::rofl:
     
  23. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    I really hope those studies are wrong cause I've only ever seen 1 that was below the "average" of 5.5". If they are right then at some point I'll probably end up meeting guys that are only 3 or 4" :noes:
     
  24. Falconer

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    IIRC 5.5-6" was average.

    People measure differently, too. You don't measure on the underside. I think you're supposed to wait until you have a boner, then measure from where your dick meets your body.
     
  25. Yail Bloor

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    4.5 to 7 inches is considered normal
     

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