And the girl you have been kinda dating and you just began the "i love you's" phase of the relationship. You are a mature person who is sick of the dating game. Your life is organized and your career has already takin off. She is a great gal, everything about her makes you happy, and you enjoy every second with her... (including the sex). She wants to go as far as possible and brings up future plans a lot. But you do enjoy every second with her and she has only made your life better from the moment you met her. She is beautiful and has a pretty nice body also. Problem = she has 4 kids . She is only 25 with four kids The kids are great and all, but is that just something bad to get involved in? She is not going after money or someone to raise her kids to a degree. She even makes more money then you. Whats your choice in the matter? Keep going and be happy with a great person you've found or try and break it off before you dig yourself a hole and break hearts if and when you want out.