SRS Saw my first crush for the first time in 9 years :)

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  1. Kerberos

    Kerberos New Member

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    Yesterday, that is, I saw the girl that I had a crush on in secondary 1 (Grade 7). I was going up an escalator at school and she was going down the other escalator with a friend of a friend. So I asked the friend to contact her friend and see what she could do. The only thing I remember about her is that in secondary 1, I was all proud of my 87% average and she came up to me and asked me how much I had as average. I said "I could tell you but you'll be jealous", she said to say it anyways. I said 87%, she answered that she had a 92% average. Monumental burn I know :). She wasn't interested in me in secondary 1 and I understand since at that time I was the smallest guy in the class, a nerd and quite socially inept, but do you think it could work 9 years later? She still looks pretty much the same as 9 years ago: still has those big droopy blue eyes and those long blonde hair.
     
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    Chances are she's married with kids.

    But you'll never know until you find out.
     
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    The question of whether it could work is quite irrelevant. Who is to know?

    The only question you should ask yourself is: how quickly can you get ready to meet her.
    Do not leave it longer than 2 weeks. In fact, 1 week should be more than enough.

    Make contact by next Wednesday. Arrange to meet her on Friday.
    If she says she's busy, propose a different date.
    If she says no again, drop it. The end.

    She can contact you instead (meaning she never actually will, but you knew that already).

    Good luck.
     
  5. Kerberos

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    I don't have her info yet: my friend is working on it. She didn't even see me, and I doubt she would have even recognized me. I grew at least a foot since then, don't wear glasses anymore, gained over 70 pounds (of muscle). The only reason I recognized her is that her eyes and expression are easy to identify and are the same as 9 years ago. But, I would definitely arrange to meet her as soon as possible. Who cares if she's married with kids etc: I mostly want to see her because it's the first time I see anyone from my high school in like 5 years.
     
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    Go for it. Even if she's married that's really cool :)
     
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    It would be quite surprising that a 22 year old girl in University be married.
     
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    Heh... dude, I'm in the same situation you are... except advanced. After my ex-gf broke up with me, I ran into a girl I had a crush on in HS but never did anything about. We talked for a bit, but me being an idiot didn't get her number. Kept thinking about how great she looked. Haven't seen her in 5 years. She hasn't changed either. I on the other hand... went to the military, gained 30 lbs of muscle, changed hairstyle (ala prerequisite crew cut/shaved head). Long story short, we had a mutual friend, and neither me nor my friend had her number, but her friend knew what school she was going to which was in the city so I went and hung around there and ran into her again, and invited her to join me for some coffee and stimulating conversation and asked her for a date that Friday. She said no, but she'd be free Saturday, and that's that. The entire time, I just didn't expect anything as I figured, well, I haven't seen or talked to her in 5 years, chances are she's not interested or has a bf, but what's the worst that could happen if I ask anyway? Nothing to it man. Just go for it. If you get a date, you get a date. If not, no big deal. Just go there not expecting anything and you'll be fine.
     
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