rules of oral...

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  1. Ardon

    Ardon New Member

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    What is the polite/considerate thing to do when your gf is giving you oral and you reach orgasm? in other words, do you stop her before you come and finish elsewhere or let her mouth have it?
     
  2. Cthalupa

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    In general, you tell her you're close. Depending on the girl, she might have you finish elsewhere, or she might let you come in her mouth. Something to talk about before having oral sex, really.
     
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    at least ask her if she'll let you cum in her mouth, and if she says yes, then give it to her :bigthumb:

    but always sort of hint when you're gonna cum (if it's your first time doing oral together)
     
  4. b16

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    do this till you know/she tells you what she likes.
     
  5. toezter

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    communication is key.
     
  6. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    I always let the woman know just out of courtesy.. unless she specifically wants to be surprised I guess :)
     
  7. GSRwBOOST

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    i tell her when i'm ready to blow and she tells me where she wants it.. hahah
     
  8. low20

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    i just blow.....weve been together for almost 2 yrs...if we dont ave sex and shes jerking me off i tell her im close and she will go down to swallow...if shes giving me head, i just go when im there...why say anything? i can see if its a new gf and u dont know if she swallows or something and u dont wanna be a dick, but once ur both confortable with it, i find it better to not say anything..
     
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  10. RedVsBlue

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    isnt it kinda obvious when you are going to blow?
     
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    "baby, i'm gonna cum soon"
    simple, but effective....and she always swallows as a thanks for the heads up:)
     
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    :rofl: Thats my rule...
     
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  14. guiltybystand3r

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    i agree that if its a new girlfriend always give them the heads up your close and at that point the ball is in her court. you just cross your fingers and hope she takes your load straight to the head. if you've been in the relationship awhile its good to mix things up and suprise her every once in awhile.
     
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    you cum in her mouth. thats proper ettiquette (sp)
     
  16. Falconer

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    "Baby I'm gonna come."
     
  17. M.A. Malone Esq.

    M.A. Malone Esq. OT Supporter

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    two weeks ago: oops, did I come in yo mouf? :o
     
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    My girlfriend can always tell I don't have to say anything....

    Feeling it rise up the shaft kind of gives it away :hsugh: :naughty:
     
  19. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I always appreciate the heads up, but I appreciate it more when he's got a glass of orange juice there for me after.

    now that's considerate.
     
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    How do some people NOT know when hes gonna come. Either way, I think most girls have it pre-determined whether they will pull their mouth off or swallow. She will know what she wants to do
     
  21. The Mafia

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    Peter North is the key.
     
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    definetly love the heads up. you're not always in the mood to take it in the mouth or on the face
     
  23. Schproda

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    I warned someone about 3 weeks ago. She thanked me. But now I wish I had just spooged on her face. She deserves it now!! :)
     

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