I don't usually ask for help like this on Offtopic. I generally try to keep my personal life off of here, but I guess I am just calling out.... Anyway, onto my situation. There is this girl who I have loved for some time now. She loves me back as well. We have even gone so far as talking about marriage, where we are going to get married, and even getting our own house together (all of this is huge for me, because I don't talk about that to just anyone). She is the only significant other that I have ever enjoyed talking to my family about. The thing is, she does not live down the street from me and that is really, really hard on the both of us. She has told me that, until recently, when she thinks about the future it has always been with me. Now she just doesn't know. There is a guy that she has been friends with for 5 years, and apparently he really is trying to break her down and start a relationship with her. The thing is, they live near each other so there is nothing I can do. I truely feel helpless. Basically she just wants to be happy. She thinks that this guy will make her happy, but she has always told me that "he or no one is you". I had planned on moving to be with her this summer. Now here comes the twist, she tells me tonight that "we can't be together". She doesn't want to feel "stuck in the middle anymore" (Between me and this friend of hers). That she just wants to be happy. I understand that she "just wants to be happy" and she thinks this guy can make her happy.....but I think there is a difference between being happy and in love, than being with "who you are supposed to be with". She has told me that we are supposed to be together. But she has also told me that she can't wait forever to be with me. I really hope it's not too late. Should I not talk to her for a while? I think this might be a good idea but at the same time it may not be a great idea. She might think I am giving up and just go be with this other dude. Should I just let her do her thing? I really don't want to force anything, but I don't want to lose her at the same time.