Hey Asylum, I just needed to vent a bit. I was going through a very messy break up for the past 3 months, it just seemed to drag on forever. Finally, my ex-gf tells me she cheated on me the night before we broke up and that she has been dating someone for the past 2 months. I was unpleasantly suprised as you might imagine, considering we were supposedly working on trying to make things better for the past 3 months. I know I'm stupid for even dealing with that, but sometimes you need to make mistakes before you can learn from them. Stupidly, I get drunk this past weekend and lash out at her claiming that I cheated on her. I didn't, but I was acting like a child and wanting to hurt her. Now she is trying to make me pay for her to get tested for STDs and other diseases. I've only had 2 sexual partners in my life, I've been in two long term relationships, but it has me concerned now. What if I do have an STD, I've never been tested and I'm now super paranoid. I'm definitely going to get tested myself. What if I find out she has an STD though? Anyone have any advice on how I should deal here?