I live with my boyfriend, and one of my best friends. He recently, or should I say finally got a girlfriend. Back before he got with her, he use to be with my best friend Amanda. They did not work out because I was always in the middle solving both of their problems. He told me when he got another woman, he would like me to get to know her, and see if I thought they would work out. I thought that was odd but said okay. Well, he met this girl named Jamie. They have only been together for about 3 weeks now, but she has been coming over every night for about a month. She never says hi, and at first I thought she was just shy, but this past Friday shit hit the fan. Me and Josh were hangingout around the house, and he told me I should give her a call, I said cool. I called her up, before I could say two words too her she hung the phone up. She then called Josh, told him she does not like me, does not want to get to know me, and does not want to be my friend. I was like okay, why? She gave no explanation. He then lets her borrow my pajamas. They eat my lunch while I am at work. I was upset at this point because I felt like I was losing my best friend. Ever since this girl has came along it has been so hard to live with him. They came over Saturday, she brought her three year old daughter. They locked themselfs in his room, and left her out in the living room. She then crawled upstairs where I was at, while I was taking a bath, I was so afraid she was going to get hurt, not just by falling down the stairs, but by all the mid-evill swords and daggers I have hanging on the wall. I thought she would grab one and fall and land on it or something. This girl is 19, he is also 19, I am 20, my boyfriend is 22. She has 2 children, by seperate daddy's. She lives with her parents. Barley ever spends time with her kids, or at least that is what I have been told. I mean my assumptions are bad of her, but I am trying to make a good empression of myself towards her. She thinks I like Josh like a boy friend (but I don't), she thinks I am trying to steal him away. He thinks I don't want him having a girl friend. All I want is for him to be happy. But how can I live there, with a girl that comes over that starts nothing but problems. She talks behind my back, and the sad thing is this is all childish and I wish I was not involved, but I can't think but help she is only out for one thing and one thing only, money. I want to help him, and get to know her like he asked, but how, when she is un-willing to give it a shot. I guess all I can do is let him fall on his face. I hope I am not being selfish, I looked at his point of view and see his intensions, but he can't or maybe he won't see my side. I guess this is all stupid and ignorant, but I needed to rant.