Romancing a guy?

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  1. Psychotic Beauty

    Psychotic Beauty New Member

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    My boyfriend isn't very good at the romance thing, so Im planning on romancing him hoping he'll catch on, what would you guys like a girl to do when trying to woo/romance you?
     
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    He is not a romantic person in general, or does he try to be but never gets it quite right?
     
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    he's not that romantic in general, he's been trying recently, and it makes me really happy that he's making an effort, but valentines day is coming up, last year he took me out to arizona to get his car tuned....I already told him I'd appreciate if he did something for me this year, and im sure he will since he's been on that track lately, but I think you should give as much as you get, I want to do something romantic for him
     
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    come on guys...no tips? Im sure guys like to have nice things done for them just as much as girls do, I've boughten him as much as I can, and we have the sex thing down, I need something sweet I can do
     
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    Hmm.... what kind of situation does he work in? How about if you put together a lunch and suprise him at work with it? I know for me, I'd love a nicer/home-made lunch instead of takeout or a stale sandwich.

    Or maybe if his car needs an oil change or something, leave a gift certificate for the dash on him, along with a little note.

    To romance a guy, you have to think like a guy. What are things guys are into? Food, cars, women/sex, beer, sports.....etc. To him, watching a fight at a hockey game is romantic as long as his girl is there by his side.

    See where I'm going with this?

    I mean, if you wanted to be more feminine about it, send him a boquet of spark plugs, delivered by a jiffy lube guy ( :rofl: )
     
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    My girlfriend has made me some pretty cool stuff over time that has made me feel pretty special (and the best thing is that when you make someone something they will think of you more when they look at them).

    One of these was a beaded bracelet she just randomly slipped on me oneday with an attached note (right before she gave me a wink and walked into work).

    The other was a necklace out of similar wood beads which she hid in a bon bon for me at Christmas (she opened it up beforehand and popped it in there with a note).

    Things like that have made me feel touched and may just work for your own bloke :big grin:
     
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    :bowdown: This is what my guy is gettin for Valentines Day. Expect maybe I'll have a Hooters Girl deliver it. Thanks for the idea! :rofl:
     
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    :rofl: I actually thought about saying "a busty blonde in a tight, tied-up jiffy lube jumpsuit," but I re-thought it :o
     
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    HAWT :mamoru:
     
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    I mean, if you wanted to be more feminine about it, send him a boquet of spark plugs, delivered by a jiffy lube guy ( :rofl: )[/quote]


    lol yeah thats actually a great idea, the problem is, ive made him a million things as well, I've made him hemp bracelets, I painted him a picture or noahs ark, I've even made him a rug, and surprising him is hard because we live liek an hour away from eachother, he goes to usc, so he's always in LA. Andddd he doesnt like sports....
     
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    Can there be nothing so wonderful as romance? I don't think so. Every guy is different. My last b/f enjoyed being served breakfast in bed...being handfed sliced fresh fruit, I had HIS brand of coffee in my house, etc. Aside from that, doing something "special" just for him or getting something special just for him. No Hooters, or a pass to a stripclub, something special, just between you two.
     
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    Honestly. The same things you would like.

    I once had a girl get me flowers. No shit.
    I was completely flattered.

    If you want to start out small, but it goes a long way....
    Let him know he still impresses you.
    Find out what kind of project he is doing. Something he is really working on.
    Maybe a car, a hobby, etc. etc. And tell him what a good job he is doing.
    Tell him that it looks great. Tell him that it is coming along great.
    Because the opinion he considers the most, is yours. Even if you know nothing about the thing he is working on, let him know his work has impressed you. He may not react to it really well. He might even play it off.
    You = Baby, the motor really looks like it is coming along.
    Him = Yeah well it still needs a lot of work.
    You = Well I think you are doing a great job on it.
    Him = Okay
    It may sound like it doesn't mean anything to him, but trust me, it will mean the world to him. I promise.

    Or you could just get him flowers.
     
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    Not bother me while i'm watching football, and have dinner made when I come home
     
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    Haha. Boom Son! Best thing you can do for a guy is just enjoy some of the things he likes with him. Watch Sunday football with him maybe a nice movie like Rambo:rl:yada yada. I know I would dig it if my girlfriend wanted to go camping and planned out a backpacking trip. Food+sex+beer=love forever.
     
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    last time i ''romanced'' a guy i filled his fridge with dead guy ale, went to a basketball game with him, cooked him dinner and had sex. awsome sex.


    to me, 'romancing' is not much more than doing something that will bring a smile for that individual;let them know you are apprieciated.

    ive also sent flowers in a ld relationship, or baked goods. and massage oil :hsugh:
     
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    :werd: the big picture here is, guys are simple. We aren't the "melt in your mouth, not in your hand" type (well, ok, maybe we are :naughty: but that's another thread). When it comes to "romance" we aren't going to get visually all gushy or anything. So, like I said: to romance a guy, think like a guy.
     
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    Haha, EXACTLY.

    I don't really like football (was just being funny), but seriously, if a g/f watched Rambo (good taste there mister) or Star Wars with me, i'd love her forever!

    I think that may be the biggest reason i'm really attracted to girls at my gym. Even the ones who are just average but who put a lot of time in at the gym. Them being dedicated to doing something I love doing is awessomeee.
     
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    as soon as he gets home and sits down, pull his boots / shoes and socks off and start massaging his feet. Have some food ready for him and make sure he has seconds waiting.
     
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    damn man --- thats like something you do when you're about to tell him you're pregnant.
     

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