LGBT Risking it.

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  1. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    I was just curious what you guys would think about this, cause I have been considering this for awhile.

    Anywho I think my best friend blake is really hot, and we do pratically everything togther. (until recently were he kinda betrayed me, but I forgive him cause it was justified.) He is a really good friend and once he has said " would you suck my dick?" I said I dunno and then he said " I could think about a girl doing it or something", but I am not sure if he was just testing me or something, then last time he was over we got on the topic of being gay and he said "Sometimes I think what it would be like to be with a guy if it was excepted by society"
    My question is would you risk it and make a move on him?

    And just to clarify we are really good friends, he actually stopped me from commiting sucide.
    Also one time I hinted that we do something in a sorta harmless way, and he told me he wouldn't want to do that.

    Would you risk it though and move on him like when he is sleeping or something.
    I mean this friend is really hot, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. :noes:
     
  2. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    Don't take advantage of him in any way. Doing something to him while he's sleeping or in some other altered state is dishonest, and in my opinion disgusting.

    If you value him as a friend, you would find another way to go about it.
     
  3. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    +1 Also, if he wanted head, just ask back, be like, do you still want this? (if thats what you want) but at most this will probably be a fling or just physical, since, if he is closeted he has yet to reach the first huge point, which is getting out of self denial. So I wouldnt see it working as a relationship.

    sawwy, :sadwavey:
     
  4. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Yea I dunno
     
  5. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I fully support NOT taking advantage of him while he's sleep. That's just wrong, and could really ruin your friendship. Now, asking him if he was still interested in being falated by you is another story, buuuuut...


    ...here's the thing, I know that I make it seem like seducing and ultimately turning str8 bois is a walk in the park, but you have to be a certain type of person to emotionally pull it off. Things get complicated, and being that person's 'transitional period' is very emotionally straining at times. You will get hurt. And this will be a recurring theme, until HE is comfortable enough with himself, his family, his friends, his religion, and all other groups that we delude ourselves into thinking will not love us for us, as opposed to who we think they want us to be.

    And of the two times that I did this with the intent of having 'a relationship' instead of just 'good sex', one was a great success and the other lead to more emotional pain than I've ever felt. I had fallen in love with him, and he me...but he just couldn't bring himself to let other see our love. His idea was to completely isolate us from the world -apartment off campus, no 'gay' friends, officially we would just be roommates. Ultimately, the situation blew up in his face, and it took me a year of complete disassociation for me to get myself back to a place where I could be his friend... And today, that's just what we are...best friends, with a past. He still holds firmly to his stance that he is not gay, and is not attracted to men in general, but me specifically...to which I always reply, 'what, am I suddenly not a man?' He now tries to find girls who remind him of me, but it always falls apart.

    I should write a book about us at some point...
     
  6. brokengold

    brokengold New Member

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    where in this thread did the OP suggest taking advantage of his friend while asleep? :rofl:
     
  7. brokengold

    brokengold New Member

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    your friend is begging for the cock
     
  8. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    maybe that?
     
  9. Naturally Baked

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    while ive done it , I still think its wrong and would never do it sober...but sometimes being horny while drunk gets the best of me lol...just don't do it though..and it sounds like he wants u anyways
     
  10. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    does he know you're gay? if so, once in a while, when you're drunk together, mention how horny you are, but not explicitly towards him "fuck i'm so horny, i want to suck a cock right now"

    yea, cheesy, but it works a surprising amount of the time ;)
     
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    brokengold New Member

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    reading comprehension > me :o
     
  12. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    :rofl: s'ok
    ill let it slide this time :mamoru:
     
  13. kidwiththeshirt

    kidwiththeshirt I'm gay, big deal, wanna fight about it?

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    you make so many threads lol
     
  14. Naturally Baked

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    prly cus we are really the only people he can talk to right now :wavey:
     
  15. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Thanks for your input.
    Yea I don't think I will do anything:hs:
     
  16. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Is that a Problem?
    You guys are the only people I can relate to, plus its not like there is very much going on in here anyways :p
     
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    :hug:
     
  18. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...hmmm...
     
  19. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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  20. kidwiththeshirt

    kidwiththeshirt I'm gay, big deal, wanna fight about it?

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    i didn't say it was a problem lol, just every new thread i see has "Kitler" under it.
     
  21. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :sadwavey: :kiss: It gets easier... I'm sure you'll be having great sex in no time.
     
  22. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Hes the one on the right I am on drums...
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    My favorite pic of him hehehe...
    Yea, but he is mormon so he doesn't drink
     
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  23. Bib-Lettuce

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    I wouldn't make a move on him, too risky I think. I would just try and casually bring it up again and see where it takes you
     
  24. ManyHamsters

    ManyHamsters There are necessary pursuits... but poetry, beauty

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    oh :hsd:

    ask to see his magic underwear :x:
     
  25. ExDelayed

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    Ya, being Mormon changes everything. He wont drink, swear, get high, have pre-marital sex, wont screw around with guys and surely wont cheat on his wife.

    Being Mormon has nothing to do with how he lives his life, except if he is gay, it WILL make it harder for him to accept himself and be happy.
     

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