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Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by MapleLeaf, Dec 24, 2005.

  1. MapleLeaf

    MapleLeaf New Member

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    I wanted to let everyone know that I just got off the phone with Ryan and that his Mom died unexpectedly today. He is holding up about as good as one could expect.

    Please keep him and his family in your thoughts and prayers.

    We will be talking again tomorrow, and pretty much everyday for the next little while. If you have any personal messages to pass his way, you can send them to me to relay. He probably won't be on here for a few days.

    :hug:
     
  2. bioyuki

    bioyuki Ich habe Angst

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    :sad2::hug:

    Be strong :hs:
     
  3. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Saying goodbye is never easy
    It's the hardest thing to do
    But what hurts even more
    Is not the chance to say it to you.

    Yesterday is just a memory
    Our laughter was sunny and bright
    Then clouds started to gather
    For you were no where in sight.

    You were my first real friend to love
    And this I will never forget
    How you left without a warning
    No good-byes, my only regret.

    Wherever I may be now
    Always searching for another so true
    To place my world of emotion
    Handing my love to someone like you.

    If again I must go there
    And experience all the pain
    I would do it in a minute
    For all the good I would gain.

    No matter what wrongs
    We offered only love
    Even now, this day when you left me
    For your new home up above.

    I know you still are with me
    Your love is within my heart
    Though life is no longer present
    Our souls will never part.

    This is given to you in honor
    Of all that we did share
    I just wanted you to know,
    How much I really did care.
     
  4. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    :hay: It's crazy madness. I have a feeling I'm going to have to move home for at least a month or two since dad hasn't had to take care of cooking, the finances, etc. in over 30 years. :wtc: x1,000,000,000,000

    MapleLeaf my cell doesn't get coverage up here and I don't want you calling my other cell and have to explain to my dad why someone from Canada is calling me. I will post more the visitation and viewing is tomorrow, and the funeral is tuesday.

    :wtf: god seriously hates me :wtc:
     
  5. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    Jobe keke ^_^

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    Sorry dude
     
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  8. RyRy

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    :hay: Buried her today, I wanted to just go around and bitch slap everyone who was crying especially the in-laws who hated her, and she hated them. The reason I wanted to go around slapping everyone is she didn't want people to be sad when she died she wanted us all to have some fun and remember the good times. I'm digging out the will in a few minutes when I log off... keeping my fingers crossed on becoming a baller :rofl: j/k But a few bucks really would help out right now ;) Anyways miss you all and I have lots more to post but not the time to post it all!

    Rys :hug:
     
  9. RyRy

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    omgwtfbbq...... turns out my mom has been e-stalking me since this summer and even signed up for OT as whatever s/n I told you it was MapleLeaf when I called you earler! :eek4: :wtf: :mad:
     
  10. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :eek3: ...whao...:noes:
     
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    :wtc:

    I'm so sorry. :(
     
  12. MapleLeaf

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    Yes, RhyRhy and I chatted last evening. His mother was on here and on myspace etc., following him around. My thoughts are with you Ryan as you try and process the trust issues surrounding those actions.

    On a more positive note, she agreed I would make the best boyfriend for him, so he is moving to Canada soon. :hay:
     
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  14. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    Rhy's mom: Nudes? :eek3d:
     
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    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    :eek5: :hay: :hsughr:
     
  16. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    sorry, hon... I know how difficult it is to lose a parent
    We all grieve in our own different ways, so I respect the place you're in now...

    I wouldn't stress over her e-stalking you. I almost think it's natural for a parent to want to know what their child is doing.
     
  17. RyRy

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    :barf: I did find quite the list of adult web sites that she viewed though :eek3: :rofl:
     
  18. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    Yeah I found some papers with logins for Offtopic, Myspace, etc. Under a fake male name, fake male's email address, etc. She even had a few members names down...

    "MapleLeaf is a Gay Minister from Canada"
    "Clean97GTI"

    pretty much after here I got pissed and started running shit thru the shedder or hid the rest in my room so other people couldn't find it! She had also gotten all of my credit card numbers, made online accounts with them, gotten online with one or two of my banks, (and these were not joint accounts and the companies NEVER questioned dual online accounts on a single person's account :eek3: ) She had been printing off my statements for credit cards and bank, etc. :ugh: Then a few days ago we found out that she had gotten credit cards in her name, plus the one or two that were joint between her and dad and between like 7 of them had racked dad up for somewhere between 15-20grand in credit card debt :eek3: Granted I have no room to talk as I have about 10k in credit card debt now but still :wtf: besides about 3-5 grand that she transfered from the loan on her van (loan was at 4-6% credit card offered 0.9%) did she buy?! But as soon as we cash in her life insurance policy Dad will be debt free again. And now I get to pimp around in a Yukon Denali, so life isn't all bad :wiggle: Dad's talking of buying himself a new Vette or Cadillac I'm all game for that as well because pretty much Dad worked his ass off for close to the last 30 years and maybe spent 10% of his income on himself. He always drove the older higher mileage vehicles, etc. He worked and it was basically mom's job to spent the money and she did all the finances so when he found out he was more then 5,000 in debt he was like :wtf: :gtfo: Anyways I gotta head out again I'm sure Dad will be home in a few and I need to get busy cleaning this house! Ok so now you can feel sorry for me because I HATE cleaning this house!
     
  19. RyRy

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    Hi phone buddy! :wavey: And sorry but I've decided to stay single for awhile again. I've seen way too much crap this year and nobody needs the baggage I'm carrying around right now. And is it wrong that I don't feel bad now for our (mom and myself) last conversation being an argument? Seriously now that I've found a bunch of this stuff out I don't feel bad about it at all.
     
  20. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Not wrong...

    You're just numb right now.

    You're going to go through a lot of emotional phases... anger, sadness, etc...

    Just let yourself go through the emotional rollercoaster, knowing that you'll come out fine on the other end.

    :big grin: Life is a wonderful journey, even through the dark times.
     
  21. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...exactly.
     
  22. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...soooooo happy that I've been 'tame' for the last few months. I can only imagine what she would have had on me had I been full throttle. :noes:
     
  23. MapleLeaf

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    Tis ok RhyRhy... remember though, as you carry your baggage around - make sure it is fabulous (louis vuitton would be the best). You are gay you know. :greddy:

    When you need help unpacking your clothes :naughty: you know where to reach me. :mamoru:

    There is no right or no wrong thoughts. As I have said to you, remain true to yourself and think and do what is right for you, no-one else.
     
  24. BlondieAMC

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    No, you are not wrong at all to feel that way.
    But you will go thru alot of emotional times.
    Just remember, you have people around you that love you and you can always talk to them when you have those feelings, if you so choose to.
    I won't say it's going to be easy because it won't, but you just have to keep living your life.
    It's been over 2 yrs now that my mom passed and i still have emotional battles from time to time. It was really tough when my dad was remarried.
    But keep your head up, your in my thoughts and prayers.
     
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