This is probably my biggest problem and personal weakness of mine. I become too attached too quickly. I always seem to move too fast emotionally in relationships. This seems to be purely internal but im sure it somehow starts reflecting on the outside. Ive been with my current girlfriend for 3 months and she already wants to say I love you all the time. She already wants to get an apartment and live with me. Heres the kicker - she is 21 and has a kid (im 21 as well). I do not have any desire to be babys daddy nor move into an apartment with her and become babys daddy. The kid is 17 months old. And I work with her as well at outback steakhouse. I guess I am going against everything I would normally say and do... Ive stuck it out this far because she has been a pretty fun chick and the sex is amazing. I got pretty pissed off at her @ work last night. Her ex boyfriend who she has a fucked up history with and is kind of a crazy guy "randomly" shows up at our work (they have been broken up for a year) to wish her happy birthday out of no where. they had a bad break up. she was talking to him at work for 15 minutes straight then she walks away and comes back and is gabbing for another 5-10 minutes with him. I get pissed and decide not to talk to her. She says it was just a hi how are u doing catching up type deal but I already let her know if she is going to continue talking to him or hanging out with him that im OUT like a fat kid in dodgeball. Your thoughts on the entire situation / relationship as a whole?