Relationships that started from the internet and took off into real life. Opinion?

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    It seems I might be onto this sort of situation. The girl is pretty smart, funny and good looking. I have already seen her on cam and got her number. However, I don't totally buy this whole thing.

    Anyways, If I want to keep this thing going, it would be better to reduce the times in which we talk online so as to build steam and interest, right? :dunno:
     
  2. Bugalu

    Bugalu OT Supporter

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    you met her online, how?
     
  3. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    From some forum I frequent.
     
  4. kiri

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    does she live near you?
     
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    Not really. However, we've already spoken about meeting each other.
     
  7. Bugalu

    Bugalu OT Supporter

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    gyea tell us more and go from there. if shes 30-45 min away from you, i'd pass.
     
  8. kiri

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    well i think you should progress like you would with any relationship. meet her, see how it goes and if you both want to pursue it. just don't make any rash decisions like having one of you move right away to be with the other one.

    how old are you both?
     
  9. forgotmyname

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    I would say hours away. :hs:

    However, like I said we've already spoken about meeting up in real life.
     
  10. forgotmyname

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    19 and 24 (me).

    That's a nice advice but I am talking about the online part. Should I keep it limited so I don't burn out myself totally and eliminate any interest from meeting her.
     
  11. kiri

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    just don't be available ALL THE TIME. maybe it's just me, but if i were in the girl's situation i'd be like "damn, does this dude have a life? he's online all the damn time". just live your life normally and she'll stay interested... no need to record the time you're online or whatever.
     
  12. Bugalu

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    well go meat her and see what happens... either it will work or it wont.

    im voting that it wont due to distance.

    just remember theirs millions of girls out there, and if one doesnt work out your that much closer to one that will.
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I wonder what amateur porn sites she's on with that webcam...
     
  14. Alaya

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    wut
     
  15. forgotmyname

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    Oh its you...:hsugh:

    It wasn't a porn site at all. :coolugh:
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: My good friend met an attractive young girl who before they met offered a video chat. We all one day found out she was on the amateur college girl webcam porn sites. It was fucking hilarious. We kept bugging him to go get on the cam with her.

    Edit-He met her off Myspace. OP, has she ever told you what she does?
     
  17. forgotmyname

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    Yeah. She goes to school and has a job (I also know what job she does, and it is not porn related at all :hsugh:).
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Phew :rofl: ok, good.

    To the topic at hand....just meet her if it'll make you happy. At least you'll know right away if you have chemistry or not. If not, who cares; she lives hours away. If so....go from there :dunno: Just plan a meeting day.
     
  19. forgotmyname

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    Yeah, I am not making that big of importance on the whole issue ( I must not), but I can't lie to myself. I do like this girl, but oh well.

    I'll just go on the availability routine so I don't make myself look like that.

    PS: We have already spoken about meeting up somewhere in the summer.
     
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    My mom actually met her fiance on one of those online dating sites (think it was eHarmony or Match). He's a really great guy, and they're perfect for each other...so, yeah, sometimes it can work but I'd say it probably fails more than it actually works. It's just too easy to lie on the internet.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Don't lie, you used it for sex, you little hussy!





    :mamoru:
     
  22. Alaya

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    I had a few 'fun' cam sessions with an ex when he was out of town if that counts :hsughno:
     
  23. XaPU!M

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    My father has started using the net to find women :rofl:

    He goes through girls faster then I do now it's nuts. Though I think the online shit works better for old people then young.

    I don't see any problem with it as long as she is stable. I think a lot of people who suck at real life (young people) tend to use it as an excuse to not get out of their house and figure out how the real world works. But there are lots of people who are just to busy etc.

    Though personally I wouldn't do it. I still have the idea in my head from the 90's that it's a good way to meet crazy people and dirty old men.
     
  24. vodkacollins

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  25. silentdreamsend

    silentdreamsend *Fap fap fap*

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    My boyfriend and i actually met on the internet.

    Logged onto a typically pervert invested chat room when i was younger, put out a general message in the main room asking if anyone was up for a NICE chat nothing more etc and this guy messaged me. We talked and talked and cammed and texted and rang eachother and after 3 years we began to meet up, there was no relationship for 6 years. We have been best friends since we started talking online really, up until about a month ago when we finally decided to give things ago after waiting for the timing to be right with both of us having so much go on in our lives.

    But yeah, i've never clicked with someone so much in my life, it still amazes me we met on the internet! I say give it a go!
     

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