A major downfall for girls im dating or in a relationship with is the whole birth control issue. the ones ive been with didnt take it and didnt want to. I really felt uncomfortable having sex with them just relying on the condom alone. Any suggestions for the future? Any good way of approaching this in order to help persuade or open up the girls mind to at least reading about it? It seems most of them heard the "facts" and didnt want to go any further with it. I just didnt want to have sex in fear i would have a kid.