relationship tips

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  1. kyle1616

    kyle1616 New Member

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    first off im 17 and at my last year of high school im new to relationships and recently me and my best friend have been hitting it off and started to date today.

    everyone noes we like each other we are both covered in hickies.

    when getting into the relationship we talked about if anything gets weird or threatens out friend ship we should break it off.


    she has had a few boyfriends and has had sex a few times.
    myself am a virgin.


    what happens in a typical relationship obviously take her on dates and just act myself.

    i can turn her on really good before we even started dating we have done everything but sex.

    me and her really love each other and i dont want to ruin anything i really want to see what this relationship can become.

    can someone just give me advice to keep her interested or idea about anything, for the past 2 years alot of people have told us they can see us getting married.
     
  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    stop worrying about all this stuff. Just go with it.

    End of thread.
     
  3. kyle1616

    kyle1616 New Member

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    thanks, even those words help
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    make a mess, go with the flow
     
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    go with the flow man. Your getting too worked up. It isnt like the movies and shit. Just live your life and have fun with her when you want to.
     
  7. kyle1616

    kyle1616 New Member

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    wow thanks allot ill just keep on doing what im doing
     
  8. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    don't project. don't predict a future together. that can make things complicated and way less fun.

    just go with it, take it one day at a time, and enjoy it.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You're in love? People still give hickies? Ok fine, I won't be a bitch and move past that stuff....just calm down and like every else said-go with the flow. Thinking too much ruins all relationships.
     
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    you started to date today... you arent in love, IMO, because that comes much later. But i do not doubt your happiness or infatuation (hickies lol). I've been there, its a good time, take it day by day, do not talk/think about marriage. you will be going through a lot of changes in the next couple of years, including probably at least one of you going to college soon. try and live day by day.

    oh and, i need to take my own advice.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    . I'm already worried this is the kind of kid who changes his entire plans for college around to fit his new girlfriend into it....You know the case, when they break up just a few months into college and completely regret going there in the first place, that kind of stuff.

    To the OP, just don't get too ahead of yourself.
     
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    yankeeschick14 New Member

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    pretty much 99% of my friends (my bf and I are the only ones who stayed together after going to separate colleges). people do things when theyre fun and easy, when times get tough they get out while they can.

    To the OP, just be young and in love, its the best time ever. :)
     
  13. kyle1616

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    no im not in love i no that, im usted to saying it because we always said we loved each other as friends every day
     
  14. kyle1616

    kyle1616 New Member

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    yea i understand im not worried anymore ill just go with the flow. thanks
     
  15. Stev

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    Oh he is 17 and a virgin, give the kid a break... :)
     
  16. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    Quick question, what's with your AV?
     
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    i can't believe im going to be the first...

    thats an interesting av you have yourself there.
     
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    LOLz.. i have my OT settings on worksafe since i am on 90% at work.. thanks for bringing that to my attention, thats good stuff.
     
  19. kyle1616

    kyle1616 New Member

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    i made a thread about the 30th pic posted would be my av

    and this was the outcome, yes i stick to my word
     
  20. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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  21. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    Well, this is like my backhand to me.

    My "friend" Cristina and I have known eachother for well over 16 years, we both went through every school together from Elementary to High. We had the same graduating class and live in the same hood. Her and I started dating the first time back in HS, just like you two are now.

    I'll tell you this. I love this girl with every inch of my heart, as a friend and as a person. When you know someone in and out it can usually end up being the best time of your life. You need to remember that this "dating" isn't just a change, but, a new lifestyle.

    If you guys are as tight as you say you are and know eachother well, then I'd recommend not changing a thing. It's awesome that ya'll hooked up and I'm sure there will be plenty of times to smile.. just remember who you guys are. It's okay to be bf/gf, but remember to always be eachothers friend first. In the end, it'll always help the situation. Kisses and sex aren't an added bonus, they're a part of maturity. Take everything in slowly, and just because you know eachother in and out doesn't mean you need to rush into anything. Get those marriage thoughts the fuck out've your head, you're 17.

    It's tough to go through a physical relationship with someone and be "friends" in the end if things go down wrong. Just keep in mind that there is a possibility that if things go wrong you could lose the friendship that you once cherished.

    Good luck, hope things work out for ya. I'm not 21 and 3 years since we graduated, it looks like her and I will be getting back together again.. So, trust me, if things are meant to be, they'll be.
     
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    Go read ware_ru (Jkidd5's) posts. Go now in the archives. COMN MOTHERFUCKER GO NOW AND READ THEM IT IS THE BEST SHIT EVAR.
     
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    IDB IDB!!!!1!
     
  24. Ashley86

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    Hey, Your on the right path. A relationship is just a best friend, but your sexual with them. Take your time your young. Relationships are not easy they take a lot of work. Just be patient all will tell in good time. Good luck to you.
     

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