Ok i'm 23 and my SO is 20. We've been dating for a little over 2 years now. I'm madly in love with her and she claims she loves me but she's not sure if she is in love with me. Now for the first year things were great. We had a strong sexual relationship and were constantly around each other with no problems. At the beginning of the 2nd year she started on Depo Provera(worst mistake in the world). Now the Depo killed her sexual mood she got to the point where she was repulsed by sex (not just with me but sex in general) and she didn't even want to touch or be touched. She claims she didn't have any sexual feelings or thoughts for anyone. Now she was on the shot for 6 months b/c it did help her other problems. She has gone off the shot now and been off for about 4 months and she still has no sexual desire or desire to kiss me. She claims recently she has become excited in certain situations at bars and stuff over others but its not that common and she doesn't get excited around me. She has not cheated or anything of that sort as i'm with her most of the time. She has recently started questioning us and is getting close to ending the relationship over this sexual desire problem. I'm really in love with this girl and would hate to lose her but i don't want her to be with me if she is not sexualy attracted to me. I don't know if she has just grown tired of me or if its still the shot acting in her or her new medicine. I guess i should mention she is on a mild dose of prozac now since she didn't want to do the Depo anymore to take care of mood swings. I guess my real question is has anyone been through something similar and gotten the spark back? We still enjoy being around each other and i find her very very attractive. We talk constantly even though she is very busy with school. We see each other at least 4 to 5 times a week and spend most weekends together. She's an outstanding girl and i don't want to be without her. But i also don't want her to be trapped with me. We're both kind of at a loss as to what to do. Any advice (preferably from the more mature members here) would be appreciated.