So I've been friends with this chick for over two years. About two weeks ago I made a move and we ended up making out. We both liked it, and shortly after we got even closer and continued this relationship, but never officially calling ourselves a couple. We've made out about 4 times and almost after every time we do, she asks, "what do you want from me?" and she tells me she hates this friensd w/ benefits style relationship. She did this just a few days ago after prom night. Anyways I kinda got sick of this shit, so I tried some detachment stuff with her, thinking maybe she would just drop it and let our relationship continue. I stopped walking her to our classes and walking to her locker. She still tried to initiate some convo in classes but I wouldnt really try/flirt anymore. She asked me if I was mad and I just told her I was giving her some space. Today on the second day of detachment she broke down and came to my locker and walked to class. Again I continued the detachment. Question is, am I doing the right thing? I don't really want a gf/bf relationship right now, but a good friend to make out with is a nice thing, but she apparantly doesn't think so. Thoughs?