Relationship Question: Sealing the deal?

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  1. ski

    ski New Member

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    Ill try to make this as short as possible but im looking for some advice from some more experienced members around here.

    I've never really dated the 'nice' girl before, or really dated seriously at a all. About a week ago I met her (we've known each other but never really talked).

    Since then, we've been together every night, watching movies in her bed, eating dinner, just being together because we enjoy each others company. She's the nice, funny, smart girl that all the guys I know want, but don't get - hence I dont want to fuck this up.

    Essentially, my question is - what is the next move? How do I move to the next level with her. Next time we're laying on the bed should I roll her over and kiss her? Or just put my arm around her and hold her hand?

    I'm not experienced enough in the situation to interpret the signs correctly (at least i'm not sure, and don't want to do something to make her uncomfortable).

    She's not dirty or slutty in any way, either. (Not that thats a negative thing, just trying to add details)

    Thanks for any advice you may have :wavey:
     
  2. beautiful disaster

    beautiful disaster OT Supporter

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    take it slow, try kissing her on the cheek or on the neck when you hug her good bye...then try holding her hand, maybe lightly brushing your fingers against hers...etc.
     
  3. ski

    ski New Member

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    Thanks :bigthumb:

    Good idea
     
  4. ski

    ski New Member

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    Bump


    [move]:love:[/move]
     
  5. red97gst

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    a good rub on the back when it seems called for

    i mean honestly, if youre watching movies in her BED on a nightly basis, shes probably comfortable enough with you for you to be a bit physical

    if you can have soem kind of body contact while a movie is playin...like sit down kindof with ur arm around her or with her body in front of u, that kinda thing

    squeeze her arm or do something thats affectionate but not especially sexual

    massaging or rubbing is what i like to rock
     
  6. purplebeast

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    Stick out ur tongue with chewing gum on it and ask her if she wants some
     
  7. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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  9. CelesteLeSonne

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    take things slow + she'll make it more obvious if she wants to progress + yr not.
    tell her these things, tell her yr dense + new to this, most girls find this attractive, + will appreciate it.
    yes, she sounds like the ideal girl for many guys but after time many get lazy + neglect - girls usually do to... just enjoy it while it's still this happy for both of you.
     
  10. ski

    ski New Member

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    Well, as nervous as I was about doing it... it pretty much came naturally.

    Edit: Had to remove the details for one reason or another.

    :wiggle:
     
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  12. JordanClarkson

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    You have to slowly get more physical with her. Touch her back, her hair, her arm, leg, etc. Come up behind her and grab her by the waist. Tickle her. Pick her up randomly. She needs to get comfortable with you physically.
     

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