Me and my g/f just had a talk, and she feels like we are becoming more "distant" and she says she doesn't feel the initial "spark" anymore. What are some ways of strengthening this, or ways to help solve this problem. It is weird because we just spend the whole weekend together, and are together almost 5 days out of every week. We always are going out and doing fun things, and this just completely came out of the blue. I told her we need to work on it, and that every relationship needs "work" to succeed, and that in order to know what close feels like, you need to feel distant every once in a while too. There are ups and down in every relationship and you need to talk and work things out and not just give up on things. Any honest suggestions or ideas?