So I picked up this book about a week ago, as someone suggested it on another forum. At first I was skeptical due to the title seeming kind of "Alpha male" BS mumbo-jumbo. Checking out the reviews on Amazon it seemed a little too good to be true. Nonetheless, it was cheap, so I bought it. I barely got 1 chapter in and this book is amazing. It's much more than just dealing with "pick up" techniques and the usual BS. The guy who wrote it is a psychologist with 25 years of experience and he has some really amazing insights as to WHY guys are acting the way they are. He deals with putting others needs first, being passive, being angry, sexuality issues, why we chose unavailable partners, why we can't accept gifts or being taken care of, and some really fascinating ties to being abandoned as kids, and how it all ties together. The book is also written very well. It's clear, concise, and easy to read. I just finished reading it and am now going to re-read it again. It really made me think about a lot of my behaviors. The results are also pretty interesting. In just one week I've seem some radical changes in my relationship - for the better - in ways that I cannot even explain. I'm having lots of really powerful insights into myself and my relationship, and life is moving ahead in some great ways. Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 His web site: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com He has some (slow) forums, and there are a few good articles, and this one is the most powerful one for me: http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11084 Enjoy!