recently de-virginized, two pump chump

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  1. trix are for kids

    trix are for kids New Member

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    boo. recently lost my virginity with my gf (who was a virgin too) and the longest we've been able to do it is probably two minutes, which is the most recent time we did it. i even find myself losing my hard when i am stimulating her manually and she will get me going again, but i just come way too fast. is it just nerves? is it just because im not used to it? should i switch to extended pleasure-ish condoms? (currently using trojan-enz w/ spermicidal) any help would be greatly appreciated, and im sure my gf would appreciate it too!
     
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    Started off in the same boat (same condoms too), I started being able to last like long after maybe the 5th time we had sex.
     
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    crunchy_black OT Supporter

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    you can only get better at something. Keep at it
     
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    I don't think getting soft while fingering her is an issue...as long as you can get hard again. Did you last a while before you guys had sex - handjobs and bj's? If so, then probably just need to relax and get used to it. It's a new thing with lots of surrounding hype!
     
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    around the 4th-5th time it lasts longer, 1st time, never as long
     
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    Really good advice. Kegels can make a really big difference, for both of you.
     
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    thanks for the help all. yea, i lasted alright during the handjobs, but i was kinda letting myself come earlier in those situations. getting hard again after fingering isn't that hard, but its kind of a forced hard, where once i am hard, i would come early- regardless if it was sex or not, like if i wanted to masturbate real quick before sleep or something. i am thinking it is just nerves/new experience. i was literally shaking during our first time. thanks
     
  8. 200mph

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    i used to be the same way. Took me a little while to be able to do marathon style fucking... just get lots of practice with her and I guarantee you get better
     
  9. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    couldnt fucking cum at all
     
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  11. Way_fast_Whitey

    Way_fast_Whitey Cause I Can't Stand To See You Treated Bad, I beat

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    It will get better w/ time brotha. My first time was an hour or so. Just keep at it..tell her its practice.
     
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    R1DDL3 FLYING HELLFISH

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    aye practice. and congrats btw:bigthumb::hsd:
     
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    the first time i went longer than my 2nd time..
    i was drunk my 1st time

    i found a few things over time
    a) if i dont think about the act of having sex with her, i go longer
    b) if i concentrate on kissing her and pleasing her, i go longer
    c) if i have to take a piss, i go longer
    d) if i'm drunk, i go longer (though she has said if i'm too drunk, the quality of the erection sucks)
    e) if (god forbid) im wearing a condom, i go forever (been bareback since day 1 with exception to a month when she was "in between pills" .. and anything else blows, sorry)
     
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    FredBull *******

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    haha yeah same here
     

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