boo. recently lost my virginity with my gf (who was a virgin too) and the longest we've been able to do it is probably two minutes, which is the most recent time we did it. i even find myself losing my hard when i am stimulating her manually and she will get me going again, but i just come way too fast. is it just nerves? is it just because im not used to it? should i switch to extended pleasure-ish condoms? (currently using trojan-enz w/ spermicidal) any help would be greatly appreciated, and im sure my gf would appreciate it too!