OT i feel i need help in my own little situation. my ex and i recently split and it was my fault obviously but this is the girl i want to marry (we aren't in high school) i planned on proposing to her in a few weeks from now purposely around our 2 year anniversary. but the problem is i had a face book which i told her about a while ago and somehow she must of never heard me say that apparently. so she finds it adds me and then looks through everything on my profile(this was after we broke up) so she then flips out on me for never telling her i had one in the first place when i clearly did. and more recently I've come to find that she found out my password for my account. the problem is she went through my account completely and started blaming me for cheating on her when we had taken a break for a few weeks and i was hanging around with a few friends of mine that were girls. she sees that i have messages from them and automatically assumes that i had only lustful intentions with them. on top of this. some girl i used to be friends with had told her best friend that i had cheated on her( i talked to said former friend and she denied it which doesn't surprise me) and it pisses me off especially that me cheating hasn't happened. said ex keeps telling me to fuck off and never to talk to her again ever and that i need to change and this and that. OT is there anything i can do to fix this situation?