OK, here is my situation. I recently went out with a few friends, one of whom is a girl that I am interested in; she seems interested as well. The problem is that 2 months ago, she broke up with her BF of 4 years. How do I tell if she is really interested or if I am just going to be the stereotypical "rebound guy"? Is there even a way? I guess I could just go for it without expecting it to be anything more, but I have had a bad experience with being the rebound guy. My first love ended up using me as one (of course, at the time, I had no clue that she was since I was so head over heels in love with her), which crushed me completely. Any and all helpful comments are appreciated.