SRS Really depressed :*(

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  1. big 1

    big 1 New Member

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    Today my son was born. Today the love of my life that i had been working so hard to get back told me she is leaving for good. Life sucks :(


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    I give up on life
     
  2. Cerridwen

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    I can literally see the reason why you should not give up on life ;)

    Congratulations on the birth of your son. I hope you are able to find peace in life by being the best father you can be.
     
  3. big 1

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    he's beautiful ...
     
  5. Stilgar1973

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    I am not sure what to say about the love of your life leaving part.
    I assume that isn't your baby's mommy.
    It sounds kind of callous to ruin a special day like today by dumping something like that on you.

    Congratulations.
     
  6. Los

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    Fatherhood is the shit. Yeah, the mom leaving you sucks but maintain a good relationship with her for the sake of your child. My baby momma and I are great friends.
     
  7. big 1

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    Post made by ex who left me.
     
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    Los Active Member

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    Then you realize how you fucked up. She left you, ok. Love your child. Fuck the other man. If you have a child, then be a man. That child needs you more than your ex.
     
  9. big 1

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    that was my ex writting that. The one who broke up with me when my son was born. This is not true and I never cheated on her.
     
  10. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    well, whatever, im confused but. good looking baby (as far as babies go. lol)
     
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    Gosh for christ sakes learn to how to change your account password. Everytime your posts are confusin becausing your ex always types something too
     
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    Better idea.. make a new account so you two can have your own SEPERATE accounts.
     
  13. big 1

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    yeah, i did. I changed the password. Even more confusing is the fact that she calls me today to confirm its over when i was already under that impression since she sent me a txt message asking me if i had an recent pics of her for lavalife. Then today she invites me for lunch? Wtf!
     
  14. Cerridwen

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    How is your son?
     
  15. big 1

    big 1 New Member

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    well the son will have health complications since the babys mom did pot, exstacy smoked and drank while pregnant.
    checkup is next week.
     
  16. Cerridwen

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    That sounds wonderful. Did you inform your son's pediatrician of that? Why don't you attempt to get custody or at least call child protective services?
     
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    what a lovely clusterfuck this is.

    cute kid, i hope there aren't any serious complications. you should kick the mom in the cunt for doing drugs while pregnant.
     
  18. infinite loop

    infinite loop Statistically speaking, the Yankees do indeed suck

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    how could you have a baby with another woman if you never cheated on her? :confused:
     
  19. big 1

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    My long term ex was emailing her ex boyfriend and I was really hurt by this and after several months i broke up with her and i knew it was stupid of me. the ex got a rebound immediately and i was reactive. The first girl that showed interest in me (the babys mother) I got with. I came to terms with how i was feeling and broke it off with the babys mother (not knowing she was pregnant) and went back to my long term girlfriend as i realized how much i cared and loved her
     
  20. Chase

    Chase Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck yo

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    So you need to forget her, and focus on your kid. Once you realize how good you got it, all you will need is your son, he will take up all of your time, money and extra emotion ;)
     
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    be a part of your sons life and enjoy the blessing of fatherhood. fuck the drama man. you have a beautiful son now that you are responsible for and will one day come to look up to you. set a good impression starting now so he can grow up to be a good man. This is even more important if there are health issues.

    best of luck to you bro.

    what is your sons name?
     
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    and for the love of god change the title of this thread. It should read....

    TODAY MY SON WAS BORN! I AM THE HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE!
     
  23. sagwa1

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    Just put aside the issues between you and your ex......the only person in this drama who matters is your son.

    Parenting is the most challenging, and rewarding part of life. Step up and have fun. Because it really is a lot of fun when you allow it to be.
     
  24. big 1

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    Today was the first day of not talking to the long time gf/ now ex. Man this hurts :(

    I wish I could take back the time and change things that I have done in the past...I guess its too late and I am going to have to move on instead of dreaming
    :wtc:
     
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    I just put two and two together and realized that you are the manhater from the other thread.
    I take back my sympathy. I am sure your girlfriend knew what she was doing leaving you.
    And as far as you having a son. You have a lot to learn about men sweatheart. You either need to give the kid up for adoption or get your attitude in check regarding the other gender.
     

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