FRK Rape fetish?

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  1. mazda7fb33

    mazda7fb33 Guest

    what does it mean if a girl tells you she has a rape fetish, where simulating a rape "session" turns her on. what is this a sign of? and FTR i already know she has had a somewhat abusive past. i just want to know what im supposed to do, she asked me to do it to her :ugh:
     
  2. 01000101

    01000101 New Member

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    im at the bottom of the list around here for being the correct person to respond, but it means she wants to be submissive and for you to take charge

    "rape" her :shrug:

    use safe words when you play tho.
     
  3. deaddweeb

    deaddweeb Gundy, Gunder, Gunthy, Goonter, Günder... GUNTER! OT Supporter

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    i've had that feeling of wanting to kind of play a scene of rape.
     
  4. mazda7fb33

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    what i meant by she wants me to "rape" her is that she wants to wear some clothes she doesnt care about, and she wants me to chase her in the woods, knock her down and rip her clothes off and be extreemly forcefull.
     
  5. XpLoiT

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    that is what i would assume
     
  6. DatacomGuy

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    Very common actually. Doesn't really mean anything, as far as her desire to be really raped. It's all a control (Sub/Dom) kind of thing.

    My wife and I love that rape game.. ;)
     
  7. just come home early or something one day, surprise her, just knock her to the ground, call her names, rip her clothes off, slap her around a little, force yourself on her, fuck her everywhere, treat her like a piece of shit, i'm just guessing at what to do here as no chick's ever asked me to rape her, but if my wife did, that's what I'd do.
     
  8. Acesn8s

    Acesn8s The Deadman's Hand

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    Before she brought this up to you, what was your sex life like? Were you guys rather vanilla, i.e., lights off, missionary position only etc., or somewhat freaky?

    If you really haven't done a lot of Freaky stuff you may want to tell her you'd like to start slower. Start with some forceful/rough sex, a little pinching, scratching, biting, choking, come up with some safe words like Red light and yellow light . . . this way she can say "stop" and "no" and you won't get worried that your hurting her.

    If you're not comfortable with what she is asking you, explain your feelings. Ask her for somemore details, like are there certain things she doesn't want you to do, are there certain things she'd like you to do (i.e., lightly slapping her face, holding her against something while she struggles, using bondage to restrain her during sex).
     
  9. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    I love it. It's always been my favorite fantasy!
     
  10. _syn

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    abusive past=strange sexual desires

    A lot of women have VERY strange sexual personas without having been abused but any kind of abuse, (at an early age esp.) will almost carve it in stone.
     
  11. LuvlyLicker

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    haha... I guess we DO have weird fantasies... I sure have a rape fantasy.
     
  12. submissive1

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    Discuss it and then sit down and discuss it again. Make sure you really understand what she wants and she really understands what she wants. Plan it out. So the spontaneity is gone.....the anxiousness will replace it. Its very common to have this type of fantasy.
     
  13. easeupoffmynuts

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    this requires lot of planning or it could go over the edge fast
     
  14. CarterInsomniac1

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    :werd:

    Definitely talk it over a lot, you don't wanna end up triggering a cycle of more and more freakiness that you can't control. Have her call in to Loveline =P
     
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    Acesn8s The Deadman's Hand

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    Anticipation is a great aphrodisiac. You could start be "prank" calling her and breathing heavy into the phone. Create an email alias and send her random emails describing how you like the outfit she is wearing, like you're stalking her.
     
  16. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    :mamoru: :noes: Oh..i don't know. Its kinda amusing when you start to realize that your level of freakyness is boundless.
     
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    When you find yourself in a dungeon attached and spinning on a giant wheel wearing a barbed wire tutu, while someone throws cool whip coverd rubber chickens at you...you'll realize your level of freakyness is boundless.
     
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    Agreed. It's by far my favorite.
     
  19. CarterInsomniac1

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    This ain't regular freakiness, this is sending him on a RIIIIIDE IIIINTOOO THE DANGER ZONE
     
  20. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: Okay, now thats just silly..
     
  21. AngelsWing

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    :bowrofl:
     
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    :bowdown: :rofl: were can i sign up??? :mamoru:
     
  23. videogrl

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    I know many people here say that a person past doesnt really matter, I agree but I still say be careful. By abusive do you mean her parents beat her another SO beat her or was she raped? If she was raped discuss this w/ her. You might be surpised it may come up while playing rough even though she feels she is over it. I know a few girls and including my self while getting too rough feelings came up again.

    And dear you do not sound comfy at all. I would talk to her. And what freaks you out about it?

    Like some one else already said start off slow. Blind folds are great and so are scarfs to be tied up w/. :naughty:
     
  24. STR8OUT

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    yeah a couple ex's of mine had this fantasy...I never really liked it though. I played the part a couple times but i always felt wierd because I hate rapist.

    Choking her was really fun though...lol
     
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    :wavey: :spank:
     

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