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  1. firecracker

    firecracker New Member

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    Lets just start off by saying that I NEVER get random girls' numbers. I'm trying to get better though. Anyway the other night at the bar I started talking to this girl whose friends were hitting up my boy. Ended up dancing with her for a little bit and made out with her after the bar closed down. She ended up going home with her friends but I did manage to get her number. Anyway, I drunkenly texted her that night saying I had a fun that night. Tried calling her tonight to see what she was up to later in the week and it rang and went to voicemail. Ended up not leaving one, figuring she already had my number from the text and was just chalking it up as a lost cause. Now my buddy brings up the point that maybe she doesn't have text messaging (strange, although he can't even receive texts on his plan) and that she doesnt answer random numbers. In short he thinks I should have left a message. Now I realize I can call back right now but should I try hitting her up later in the week/weekend or just let it go? Sorry for the long post but every girl I've either dated or hooked up with has been a friend first or a friend of a friend situation so the random person game is new to me.
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Let it go for now.
     
  3. Mr. November

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    ^ How many girls do you know who don't have texting?
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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  5. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I know one:rofl: She is cheap.
     
  6. firecracker

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    point taken...
     
  7. antihero

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    Whats that supposed to mean?

    when is he supposed to pick it back up?

    5% chance of success > 100% chance of failure.

    That being said if she doesnt answer your next attempt at contact and is willing to make some plans without you twisting her arm, then write her off.


    you should have left a message, if for nothing else then to avoid the situation you are in now. Where you "kinda" tried to contact her.
     
  8. firecracker

    firecracker New Member

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    :word: realized that after the fact. And I like the 5% chance of success > 100% chance of failure. Time to man up. What do I have to lose?
     
  9. antihero

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    I would basically try look at it like you were too lazy/busy to be bothered with leaving a msg, and will get back to her when you feel like it.

    today is probably not a good day for it. Thursday maybe?
     
  10. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    from my own personal experience, past situations have arisen where i got a number and for some reason made all these assumptions (like maybe she does not have a text plan, picking days to call back, or whatever others exist). In the end of it all looking back, I was not interested in getting to know her. Of course at that time, i just kept chalking off a bunch of bullshit excuses and reminding myself of all these 'what if' things. So this resulted in me getting the shaft 95% of the time. I just thought it was bad luck or something else. I was kind of kicking my own ass by tricking myself into thinking i had interest in these chics:o


    now are you like me?

    are you really interested in her? For what reasons? If someone better comes along, will you turn your head their way? Maybe you have not seen someone better pass by yet. :eek3:
     
  11. antihero

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    umm.. he met her for one night at a bar while drinking. he doesnt know anything about her. He's trying to get to know her here, not marry her.
     
  12. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    I have, but never use text messaging. For me it's either voice calling or email if someone wants to communicate with me. I look at texting as being as bad or worse than IMing with someone.
     
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    that 5% chance will increase if you give it a few days though
     
  14. firecracker

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    I'm thinking at least Friday... or even maybe Saturday night just saying something about hitting up the same place if her and her friends wanted to join just to play it off. :dunno:
     
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    i know 1 girl that doesnt have texting. lol


    if i were you id give it a few days.

    if nothing call again and if she doesnt pick up leave a vm.

    if no response let it go.
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :werd: :rofl:
     

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