Quick Safe Sex Question

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  1. Billy McGee

    Billy McGee New Member

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    so my girlfriend and i are in a long distance relationship, and its love
    shes visiting in a week and its been decided that we will have sex for the first time
    were both virgins, saving ourselves for the right person..

    so, shes not on the pill, but ill be wearing a condom
    shes going to be here for 2 1/2 weeks, sex will probably be had at least once a day
    she will also be ovulating about a week after she arrives

    am i being safe? im only worried about her getting pregnant...really worried
    ill be pulling out before i cum, but im still kinda worried, especially with her ovulating

    any tips or suggestions?
     
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    RadioPagan K-9 Search and Rescue Handler, Ret. Rescue Paramed

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    You will only be 93 to 96% safe ...even with pulling out.
     
  3. Billy McGee

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    better then a 50-50 shot
     
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    RadioPagan K-9 Search and Rescue Handler, Ret. Rescue Paramed

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    SHould have said it like you have a 4 to 7% chance of it failing... If your comfortable with that than :bigthumb: . My 8y/o daughter is from a broken condom. We were together a total of 5 times, 5th time it broke.

    Been using condoms since I was 14 (was 32 when I met my wife) And they only broke Once.... That once costs me $208.00 a week, and having to deal with mother. (Long story short, I Have to fly 750 miles at least once a year for court)

    Just a Heads up :)
     
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    hahaha good luck pulling out, you won't want to. well i wont.
     
  6. Billy McGee

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    ill keep that in mind
    im prepared to deal with the outcome
    but lets hope things dont come to that...:hsd:
     
  7. Billy McGee

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    no, im not stupid...i know i wont WANT to
    but im the kind of careful person that is much more logical in that type of situation
    i have no question i will pull out
    im not one to let an emotion get the better of my logical thinking
    if it lessens the chance of pregnancy then im all for it :bigthumb:
     
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    make sure you plan it out well enough.
     
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    just stick to oral. man im 19 and so paranoid about it that ive only had sex once.
     
  10. Billy McGee

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    everythings been planned out, and ive considered important issues
    and im 19 as well.....and already made up my mind
     
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  11. Fearan

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    Planned sex like that will NOT be fun. The first (and every) time should be spontaneous. Planning it ahead of time is a terrible mistake.
     
  12. hayte997

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    Is it not safe to cum in a girl with a condom on?!?
    I've been hearing that alot lately around here.. I've always done it.
     
  13. Pyraxis

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    It's relatively safe with a condom on.
    Relatively is the keyword.
     
  14. Billy McGee

    Billy McGee New Member

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    it really depends on the person
    this is a big deal for her and if it was spontaneous then she would feel odd and like we didnt prepare enough. and i would never wanna sacrafice her comfort, and i dont mind planning it out. the first time will be planned, but everything else is just whatever and whenever....doesnt matter
     
  15. Fearan

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    Planning it like that will make her feel even weirder.
     
  16. Fearan

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    What I want to say is that if you need to plan it out, then she's probably not ready for it anyways. Sex isn't supposed to be like solving a puzzle...

    You don't make a list of tasks that need to be done and review them before the sex-exam, if it doesn't happen naturally it's not meant to happen yet.
    "Alright, gotta get my notes out. If I remember the first step is something about clothes.. Or foreplay? Damn I can't remember. *Looks at notepad* Right... Kissing. Since this is our first time, let's just skip over that. Next... Dry humping/fondling"

    *Girl has a :hsugh: look*

    "Ok so, alright now enough fondling, take off that shirt... Let's begin the suckling!" all the way to...

    "Time to take off your underwear pretty lady... I need to manually enhance the wetness generator in between your legs."
     
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    :rofl:

    "Now is the time when you manually enhance the wetness generator between MY legs.. Get down there!"
     
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    Condom is fine. If you're really worried, have the 'day after' pill on hand in case it breaks.
     
  19. berny43

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    I am going to totally agree the first time shouldn't be planned out. Just the fact that both of you are ready and willing, then let it go from there.
     
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    I agree with this. Planning is just takes the fun out of it. But be careful and good luck.
     
  21. Billy McGee

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    its not that planned out
    i mean weve just decided that were ready for it, i didnt mean we listed our tasks
    its going to happen naturally, im not like....oh, its exactly 10:37 pm, its our exact time to have sex
    i just meant that we decided where we want to and a general time frame

    funny imagery though

    im thinking in case the condom breaks wed have a day after on hand
    kinda like a back up plan B
     
  22. Freeze Time

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    Ask her to go on the pill. There are clinics in every major city where she can goto get it, or just have her ask her doctor. It can be mailed anonymously, if shes worried about her parents finding it.

    The pill plus a condom is a surefire way to reduce the chance of conception. Some condoms even have a spermicidal lube, or you can buy it at walgreens. Test her arm for an allergic reaction before hand, but that way if even a drop gets out, the sperm wont last long.

    Have fun, and make sure you keep in mind that it may hurt her, so be gentle.
     
  23. Original

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    Couldn't agree more :coolugh:
     
  24. Billy McGee

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    yeah, all good thoughts
    im gonna pick up the spermicidal condoms sometime in the next week
    i actually went to do it tonight but all the Pharmacy stores in the area are closed
    i didnt feel like driving to Kroger...
    and her comfort and pleasure are my #1 priorities :love:
     
  25. :smile:

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    isnt that what condoms are for...fill me in if im wrong
     

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