LGBT Question

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  1. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    I have been bi-curious for quite sometime, and one of my friends told me about this openly bi guy.

    Mind you that we are both 17 years old I am still pretty young, but anywho would it be wrong for me to ask him after to getting to know him alittle to ask to do something with him?
     
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    1) You are young, don't worry bout the bi thing, just do what feels natural...
    2)I wouldn't just walk up and be like ":wavey: I hear you're bi and I want to try cock, wanna meet me in the locker room in 15 minutes?" Doesn't sound like you are like that from this post though.
     
  3. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    If you're attracted to him, get to know him better. Things will naturally play themselves out.
     
  4. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    just hang out and see where things go, don't expect anything and don't force anything

    if the feeling is right between you two, you will notice it right away

    have fun and keep us updated!
     
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    TTIWOP
     
  6. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    means post pics?
     
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    missed a W :o


    but yes post pics.
     
  8. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    and if it does, i concur.
     
  9. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    *sigh* The things I do for you guys... here you go...
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    WoW I just realized how cute he is... WooooooooooooooooW I need to meet him.
     
  10. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Do you think this would be an okey facebook msg to send to him?
     
  11. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    hey I just realized that you're in seattle too :big grin: we gotta hang out one day

    maybe something like "I've seen you around campus and you seem like an interesting guy and we have a mutual friend X. I am always looking to make new friends and thought it would be cool if we hung out." Then make up some reason for the three of you to hang out, then the time after, you hang out just the two of you.

    waddaya think?
     
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    The number one piece of advice I can give you after reading that is to be confident.

    when you say "oh, im sure you're not interested....... its depressing..." - its a sign of weakness/lack of self confidence. Re-work your message to be positive and skip something that "he wouldnt be interested in" - if hes not gonna be interested in it - why say it? :)

    hes very cute too :)
     
  13. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    and keep in mind just because he has done stuff with guys doesnt mean he will automatically jump in bed with you
     
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    Confidence, its almost the most attractive feature a person can have. Be sure of yourself and be friendly.

    Clingy/dependancy = bad

    If you want to get to know him just for sex, expect that he might want something more and if your just in it for sex, the chance of him leaving would be there, it would be expected. There is also the chance that he might not want nothing at all, you have to go into it expecting that the worst could actually happen.
     
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  15. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Sure

    I like your approach to :p
     
  16. Naturally Baked

    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    more pics or ban
     
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    Nothing even slightly wrong, at all.
     
  18. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    I got none sorry :p
     
  19. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    yeah really go the positive approach

    here something I have noticed over the years:

    people who are in a relationship are more attractive than people who are single. people who are looking for something give off a different vibe than people who aren't looking for something and others can sense it. so you should really try to project this sort of "I am a bit interested talking with you or I wouldn't waste my time talking but honestly I couldn't really give a damn either way" energy. the thing about the people who are single is that they are often looking for something - and it's great if you find someone who is looking for the same thing, but people hate it when they think you're trying to get something from them and nothing in return. but if they don't have to GIVE anything and can just hang out and have a fun time, they'll be more likely to do it.

    think on that :big grin:
     
  20. stolid_agnostic

    stolid_agnostic One who is both stolid and agnostic. Get a diction

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    also, where in seattle?
     
  21. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    How about you?
     
  22. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    *update* need help

    I guess I accidently sent that one facebook message :(
    but anywho this is how he replied.
    Is that a good or bad thing?

    Should I ask for his phone #, so I can talk to him on the phone?
     
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  23. Naturally Baked

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    sounds good to me, atleast he responded...id give him YOUR number and tell him to call you when he gets a chacne
     
  24. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    Thanks :)

    I love you guys
     
  25. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    What about this response?
     

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