There's a girl in one of my classes that at the beginning of the semester was very obviously into me. Always stand/sit close to me, stay late to help me with a couple projects, laugh at all my dumb jokes. She has a very attractive body, but what I worried at the time to be an annoying personality. So I'm only interested in light dating/hooking up, not a relationship. Anyway she was into me....but I had a gf at the time. And while that gf was one I wasn't feeling to strongly about I wasn't going to give in to temptation and cheat. So the girl kept giving me signals and signals and I couldn't respond to her; finally one night we were workin late and a friend txted me. She asked "Oo, that your gf?" And like and idiot I confirmed I had one by saying "Nah, she's sleeping". She's been cold to me since. Friendly, but definately tell the change. The gf and I have since ended. This situation made me realize that having a relationship in college is limiting, and I just don't want that. I'm wondering now if you think there's anyway I could get this girl interested again. My friend suggested somehting like this "Hey, that girl and I broke up, partially because I couldn't stop thinking about you. Would you like to get some coffee?". I know being direct and confident is a major plus, but do you guys have any other ideas? Or is it too late... I might add she also now talks about a "guy she dates". Not her bf, but just someone she dates. I have no other info on him. Thanks.