How would you react (what would you think) if you were in a bar, bookstore, grocery store, etc and a somewhat average appearing guy walked up to you and handed you his business card [with personal phone number hand written on it] stating something to the effect of, "Hi, I noticed you and thought you were cute (or attractive). Hear is my number if you would like to go out for drinks (or coffee)." I am considering just being very foward in this manner and seeing how far that gets me. Good idea or bad idea? Yes, I suck at approaching women and I am completely out of practice having been divorced for a little under a year now after 6.5 years of marriage.