FRK Question For The Straight Guys

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  1. N.A Honda

    N.A Honda New Member

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    Have any of you gotten a blowjob from another guy? I would think it would be even more amazing than getting it from a girl. For those who have tried it is it true?
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    :dunno: i think that gay guys will tell you that there's just as many guys that suck at giving head as there are women.
     
  3. Bubba Atlantis

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    OH I don't know about that. I have had multiple gay guys say to me that they are way better at it than women and that they could 'teach' girls how to do it properly. I think a big part of it is arrogance and ego, but I do believe there is some truth to it simply because, in theory, a guy should know the general pleasure spots on another guy than a girl would. I mean you can tell a girl 'do this because it really feels good', but they will not really know WHY. With a guy, I could see it being more 'oh of course, they want me to do that....that always feels good when I have it done' or whatever...:dunno: just my thoughts :)
     
  4. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    different people have different preferences for what they like, have different anatomies and differing levels of sensitivity on those different anatomies.
     
  5. Bubba Atlantis

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    Fair enough. I am not saying it is across the board, nor am I saying that I am even remotely correct. Simply that being of the same gender should, in theory, make you more aware of the others body. I dunno. I agree completely with you that every person is different and that everyone likes different things (that is actually one of the things I worry about when playing with a new couple), but I just figure being the same gender, you should be able to relate a bit more.
    For instance, I have no idea how it feels for Lovley when she squirts. I am definitely curious, but I will never know that feeling and can only go on what she says. However, if a guy tells me the feeling of a throat or tongue on his dick or balls or whatever, I can go 'ahh, yeah, I know how that feels. That's good.' So I do agree there are holes in my logic, but I figure being of the same gender has to count for something....how much of a role it plays? :dunno:
     
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    Very interesting points people. The reason I started thinking about it is exactly what Bubba has said about a person of the same gender would generally know where and what feels good.
     
  7. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    A lot of str8 guys tell me that I'm better than their GFs... But, they could just be saying that.
     
  8. synch

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    It floats both ways. Some guys suck at giving head as do women. I've experienced them both BUT for me personally, the best BJ I have ever gotten was from a guy. His goal was to suck it like he wanted to be sucked and just wow. My ex girlfriend never came close.
     
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    I dont have a problem with either :dunno:
     
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    I don't think so, oh conquerer of str8 menz :mamoru:
     
  11. curt698

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    As Bubba mentioned the other day there is a scale of straightness or gayness. For me getting blown by a guy is more step farther down the scale than me :dunno: I guess that may be a variation of the question.
     
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    As someone who's had both, I'd say guys give better bj's mainly because they get a little more aggressive with it, which i like :)
     
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    my guess is along the lines of what tt said - different people with different preferences. i can definitely see teh argument that a same gender person might logically know more about said body than the opposite gender, but at the same time, i would think the recipient's desire plays into it, you know? like if you just don't get off by being with one sex or teh other, it's not going to matter HOW good that person is, if you're not into the idea of being with that person.
     
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    You're not straight if you've had a blowjob from a guy. Unless it was a one time thing then maybe you could get away with calling yourself straight.
     
  15. RougeOgre

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    You don't want to go there in this forum....:nono:
     
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    I just did. If you have sex with guys and like it you're bi.
     
  17. Sam Gamgee

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    I think it has less to do with the sex (male or female) of the person giving the blowjob and more to do with education.

    I used to live with two women.
    Neither knew how to give their boyfriend head.
    They would always tell me how their boyfriends would complain that they used too much teeth, or didn't focus on one part (balls) enough and another part (shaft) too much.

    So, I sat down with them one night with a couple bottles of wine and some of my porn videos... and we watched different examples of how a proper blowjob is performed...


    Their boyfriends thanked me later.

    So, it's all about education.



    Education and no gag reflex...
     
  18. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    oh... and practice.

    I know that I need to practice on my man more often so that I can take his cock better.

    He's huge in girth... so I'm having a bit of a rough time taking his entire cock without scraping him with my teeth... so I'm gonna keep practicing until I don't get lock jaw anymore...
     
  19. RougeOgre

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    NO.... sexuality is not just about who you have sex with. It is also about emotional attachments.
     
  20. Bubba Atlantis

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    Ahhh...the ignorance shines through again :)
     
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    Maybe I am ignorant, but isn't sexuality about attraction? So, if you like to get your dick sucked by men but don't want to go out with one, that means you are straight?
     
  22. RougeOgre

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    Sexuality isn't single faceted like people believe. Most people who have studied psychology and the sexual aspects will say that sexuality is more a linear scale. Say 1 being totally heterosexual & 10 being totally homosexual. Most people fall somewhere in the middle. Also, part of the confusion stems, I think, from a lot of people not being able to seperate sex from love.

    I consider myself heterosexual but probably more on the 2-2.5 since I have a GF. I enjoy sex with her but don't have a desire to be with other women in general and would not consider being "married" to a woman.

    I'm thinking that Bubba & PE are more qualified to explain this than I am. :)
     
  23. Sam Gamgee

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    I call it the "sexuality continuum".
    Picture a see-saw, with one end of the see-saw being totally gay (like Richard Simmons wearing a tennis helmet gay) and the other end being totally straight (like Arnold Swartzenegger killing ducks with his bare hands). And picture the pivot point being bisexual.

    We all sit somewhere on that see-saw.

    I'd say that I'm definitely on the gay side, but maybe 10% might be straight. I love the figure of a female. I love boobies. I just don't have the desire to have sex with a woman...
     
  24. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    here's a graphic to help out (courtesy of Tank Rizzo about 6 years ago)

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  25. Soybomb

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    Why is your arbitrary labeling criteria the only one that matter? Why aren't people just for having sex with people of their gender, why do they have to like it to? Why don't they have to view people of their own gender romantically also? Perhaps it makes you feel better to say "omg you're gay/bi!" but you can't really identify human sexuality and romantic relationships with just 3 labels.
     

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