FRK Question for the Married folk

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  1. NVMY03GT

    NVMY03GT New Member

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    First of all Im not sure how many Married folks we have in FS.

    Do you ever ask your SO to do anything special?

    I always feel funny asking for this. Like during sex, Ill ask her when she is going to do whatever and she'll say whenever I want, but do you ever just ask?

    Edit: And do your SO's know about the FS forum?
     
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    no.. haha i ask him and he askes me ;) its fun
     
  3. naughtie

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    That didn't quite make all that much sense to me... BUT I am one of the married ones here. Yes, he knows about FS, and he's a member of OT as well.

    And we are open with our desires and fantasies. It's not that hard for us, because we are at the same place sexually, and we are learning to have great communication. :bigthumb:
     
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    NVMY03GT New Member

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    Like when we are in intercourse, kind of like dirty talk. I ask her to put on that short little skirt and her high heels..
     
  5. Cerridwen

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    Hubby doesn't know much about OT (besides that he pointed it out to me), so I doubt he knows about FS (not that I post here much anyways).
    I don't have any problems asking him to do things...
     
  6. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    hrm... i'm not sure if my so is on ot/fs :mamoru:
    i sorta just tell her what to do ;)

    ibnobodygetsthePEthing
     
  7. Cerridwen

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    PhantomExpress?
     
  8. naughtie

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    :mamoru:

    You are not the first one to read it that way... :love:

    (PhantomEmpress)
     
  9. Cerridwen

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    :o I knew it was close to that :o
     
  10. aggielooker

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    I have problems asking him to go down on me. I'm not sure if he doesn't like it or not since he won't do it very often. And if it's that he doesn't like doing it, I don't want to ask him to do something he doesn' t like to do anyway. He'll always tell me to suck his dick or something and I tell him no since he won't do the same for me
     
  11. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    you're honestly the fifth person that i can recall thinking of it that way. :dunno:

    is phantom empress really that odd a name?
     
  12. NVMY03GT

    NVMY03GT New Member

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    Same here, I haven't gone down there in a while so she won't return the favor :(
     
  13. lights

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    I asked my wife fiance (of 6 years, so we're pretty much married) if I could fuck her face, last week. She liked it and got really hot. She still won't do anal, though. She said if she could shove a beer bottle neck up my ass, she would do anal. I'm psyching myself up for it. :drool:
     
  14. Mikey

    Mikey This one, this form I hold now, so Wide eyed and h

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    yea, i did the whole "face fucking" thing with my wife before we got married. enjoyed it very much. great feeling of control!, but I kinda feel awkward asking for stuff. Like we will joke around, but kinda in the heat of the moment to ask for something seems kinda like mood killer and then on the other hand I don't want to just do something and cross a line into something she didn't want to do.

    like for instance....the idea of blindfolding her, handcuffing her, putting her on her knees and her performing oral on me or the "face fucking" thing would be soo damn hot, but i don't want to ask for it and i don't want to just do it and have her be like :ugh: :eek4: and i know communication is key but talking about everything you want to try before hand kinda takes away the spontaneity of trying something new. i dunno im rambling :rofl:

    oh, my wife and i are both OT members and know of fs :naughty:
     
  15. Stylerod

    Stylerod 150mph in a swimsuit :eek3:

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    150MPH in a Swimsuit :eek3:!

    Communication is key, but spontaneity is hot as well. If you know you are about to have a nice sex session (say you and she decide to take showers beforehand or something) make sure to get out first and set the room up. Maybe light a few candles and get something you can tie her wrists with. But don't make it handcuffs if this is your first time. If you are new to this handcuffs might seem a bit intimidating. Find something soft you can use. Maybe a some scarves or neck ties. If you tie her hands make it loose or make it so it's easy for her to get out. The "idea" is to make sure she doesn't touch you, it's all about you touching her. Use a scarf or tie as a blindfold as well. Keep her legs loose as it will give her more control and won't get her into a position that she may get a cramp if it goes on a long time.

    After you get all set up, spoil her. Handcuffs and blindfolds can be used as bondage material, or it can be used as a way for someone to just enjoy the feeling of what is happening without having to worry that they need to please you at the same time. That's the way my wife and I use those tools. :)

    It is amazing how good everything will feel to the person tied up. They can't see anything so all their senses are geared toward feel, smell and hearing. It really enhances those senses and makes getting spoiled soooooooooo much fun :bigthumb:
     
  16. Mikey

    Mikey This one, this form I hold now, so Wide eyed and h

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    we've had handcuffs and various other toys for a while and used them many times, so we are not new to this. They are very fun :naughty: :bigthumb:
     
  17. Cerridwen

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    :o It is different.. but I like it.
    I don't know why I always read it as express though
    :o
     
  18. Cerridwen

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    What is face fucking??
     
  19. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    it's :cool:
     
  20. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    Pokin' it in the mouth instead of in the pussy.
     
  21. Cerridwen

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    wouldn't that just be like a blow job though? :o
     
  22. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    No. Because you're pretty much sitting there crying as he's thrusting into your mouth. :rofl:
     
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    My wife puts her hands on my ass and I let her control the speed that way its more comfortable for her.
     
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    fucking hilarious! I just read that to my SO, the found it entertaining too. Thanks Xela!
     
  25. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    Thank you, thank you! I'll be here all week.
     

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