SRS Question for the ladies.

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  1. onedownfiveup

    onedownfiveup Active Member

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    When a guy tries to kiss you, or actually does kiss you has that changed your mind on if the guy is datable?
     
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    OoOlAlA New Member

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    I would say it could change my mind about him being datable. If I already think he is an ass or not datable or whatever but he is a really good kisser its not going to change my mind. If I think the guy is datable but he is a horrible kisser I could switch to thinking he is NOT datable because I wouldnt be able to kiss him.
     
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    onedownfiveup Active Member

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    That's what I thought. I figured it'd show that the guy actually has confidence.

    There's this girl I'm interested in. I haven't really had much time to hang out with her due to both our busy schedules, but we're hanging out next weekend and I figured that'd at least tell me where I'm at with her.
     
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    thevirginlauren New Member

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    i think that if a guys goes the extra mile and tries/does kiss me, then i would know the way he feels. but some times i'm not into the guy... then i have to tell him. but if i let him kiss me, then i do have a thing for him and i will want him to do it again.:naughty:
     
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    nope doesn't change
     
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    onedownfiveup Active Member

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    But, if he does try to kiss you and you aren't into the guy like that and you deny him. Does that make things weird from there on out?
     
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    Sloi Back up in your ass with the resurrection

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    Of course it does: you obviously like her, whereas she doesn't see you as a potential mate. You either accept that fact and remain friendly or, in the case that you didn't care about friendship, move on.
     
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    When I was still single I never allowed myself to get into a situation where kissing could occur if I didn't think the guy was datable. I had plenty of guy friends, but we were on a level where nothing beyond friendship would have occurred. If someone wasn't datable in my mind, I chose not to get into any situation with him that could lead to kissing or other things.
     
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    Doesnt change anything for me.

    I decide if a guy is dateable when I meet him. Any guy friends that have tried to kiss me I just give the :ugh: look to and avoid them for a week. :hs:
     
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    Does the guy being dateable change the more you get to know him ever?
     

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