Question for the experienced guys

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by JemmaX, Jan 15, 2007.

  1. JemmaX

    JemmaX New Member

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    So guys, how many girls have you come across that have never had a vaginal orgasm? my bf says that he has never had that happen to him, that all the girls hes ever slept with have had vaginal orgasms during sex with him. I say there must have been some faking in there, cause what are the chances of him not running across a girl who cant in all his years of sexual experience? they are out there (and hes had a lot of sex...)
     
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    i havent had a girl and i have been with 16 girls, i try to do as good as i can but it just doesnt work. so i dont know.
     
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    girls only cum like that when you have a huge dick and several other potential hotties to fuck
     
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    Depends how many times i sleep with a girl, it has taken a few good sex sessions to make some of the girls i'v been with orgasm through just sex, some one night stands and even a girl i was in a relationship didn't orgasm from just sex
     
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    My girl can do it, she's the first I've been with that can though. It helps if she's on top so she can control things and grind her clit on me.
     
  6. JemmaX

    JemmaX New Member

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    you havent had a girl...what? cum from sex?


    thanks for the answers all. he seems shocked that it just doesnt happen all the time to all guys. we kind of have a bet going about it :mamoru:
     
  7. razi

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    I haven't had any problems like that. some girls take more work than others, however.

    one of my friends insists that she's never had an orgasm and has resigned to being comfortable with it.
     
  8. fray

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    I've never had an orgasm....
     
  9. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    Some girls due take more then others. Just have to work alittle harder. I haven't run into that problem yet. Knock on the wood!
     
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    seems some of you dont differentiate between the various types....
     
  11. beanolo

    beanolo It does a body good!!!1

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    It seems to me that the girl normally knows what she likes best, I just oblige. :o
     
  12. razi

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    but the magic question is... does he do it to you?

    if so, good!
     
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  13. XERQ

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    it depends on the girl, most of my exes (and encounters) came during intercourse, some came during oral and finger play, and one didn't cum at all unless she was fingering herself

    depends on the girl
     
  14. Falconer

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    Without giving numbers, 25% of the girls I've been with could have vaginal orgasms during sex.

    My first gf I was with for 3.5 years and she never could (but I could get her off orally 3 or 4 times in 20 minutes total, which was cool).

    My most recent gf had a vaginal orgasm after we had been together for maybe a few weeks. I think it has more to do with the girl than with technique.

    edit - it sucks, but I think I'm adding "able to have vaginal orgasms during sex" to my list of criteria for a gf.
     
  15. fray

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    Why? Just curious.
     
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    Having to supplement the main dish just to keep from going hungry isn't much fun. Especially if you aren't really crazy about giving oral. (Don't look at me like that, it's not a crime goddammit)

    As an aside, I didn't have this problem much with the one girl I've slept with. Well, unless she faked consistently for 3 years.
     
  17. fray

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    so you don't get satisfaction out of it if she doesn't come? Is that what you mean?

    I don't think that's wrong, I'm just curious...and thankful that my bf doesn't feel that way. I'd be in trouble. :(
     
  18. Falconer

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    Because it's awesome when it happens.

    I love going down on a girl, it's just it's cool when they can cum from both ways, plus sex orgasms = potential simultaneous orgasms, which are also cool.
     
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    Oh it's still fun, but not nearly as much fun. Generally, what's in it for her is a primary concern to me, and it's a little disappointing to come up short there. It can make you feel inadequate if it happens too often.

    Plus like the other guy said, when you manage to go together it's awesome.
     
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    Skrizzle 350z Crew, Bike Crew

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    ive had a few problems with the girls ive been with. Some i can get off in minutes while others i have to try multiple times for long periods of times just to get her off once. i dont get it :dunno:
     
  21. fray

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    Well this is all just horribly depressing to me. :wtc:
     
  22. Falconer

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    I've never had an orgasm and I'm really feeling quite inadequate after hearing you guys talk about how much better it is. My bf is cool with it, but I think deep down he'd be happier...like he thinks it's his fault. I know it's my fault..mental block or something.
     
  24. Ryuhei

    Ryuhei Oh gawd

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    Obviously the worse you feel about it the worse it will get (I'm sure you already know that). How old are you? How may sexual partners have you had? Have you "learned" everything you know about sex from porn? Are you truly comfortable having sex with this (or any) guy?

    I'm convinced teenagers and even people in their early 20s have had such easy access to porn that they don't have to figure things out for themselves (like I did) and think porn is how real sex is done. Very sad.
     
  25. Falconer

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    Well if you've never had an orgasm, at least your bf isn't thinking "why could she get off with these other guys but not with me?"

    Have you had a clit orgasm from oral sex? That seems to be easier than vaginal orgasms from sex.

    Chicks have to be comfortable with themselves and with their bf and everything (usually) to be able to cum. It's very mental for them in addition to the physical.

    But don't worry about it. The more you try to force it, the less successful you will be. Just enjoy it. Sex is supposed to be fun.

    And please, PLEASE, do NOT fake it. I'd rather never get a chick off ever than have her fake it.
     

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