Question for men and women.How many people have you Made Love, Had Sex, Just Fucked?

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  1. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    BEFORE YOU ANSWER READ CAREFULLY!!

    IF you defined sexual activity based on the EMOTIONAL CONTENT and those definitions were:

    Make Love: In order to make love you have to be IN LOVE. Subsequently all sex with your lover is MAKING LOVE whether its a quickie in a broom closet at your job. A nooner. Or candle lights and soft music...its all MAKING LOVE with the person you're IN LOVE with.


    Having Sex: With someone you care for BUT YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE WITH. Generally girlfriends and fuck buddies. You know..he/she's not husband/wife material but if they need a 5 spot or a place to crash you got their back.

    Just Fuck: basically one night stands and hoes. Any person you don't care about or have any real intention of dealing with beyond sex.

    Again if your in love then all aspects of sex is love making no matter how fast and dirty. And if you don't care about the person then its all fucking no matter how many candles and rose petals there are...you're just fucking..really SLOW.

    PLEASE DON'T SAY SHIT LIKE "I FUCK MY WIFE IN THE MORNING AND MAKE LOVE TO HER IN THE EVENING"..thats NOT what I'm talking about.

    Going by that...

    ladies...HOW MANY MEN HAVE YOU:

    MADE LOVE TO:
    HAD SEX WITH:
    JUST FUCKED :

    fellas... How many woman have you:

    MADE LOVE TO: 1
    HAD SEX WITH: 2
    JUST FUCKED : 15 (thats mostly massage parlors and internet hookups)
     
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  2. HuskiRuski

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  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Interesting. This now makes a little more sense why you are hung up on your ex.
     
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    well yeah, i guess it does. i mean i'm 19, and had been in that relationship on/off since i was 17, so it makes sense.

    i honestly don't get much from one-night kind of things. there are girls who i picked up at parties (some of whom i was fairly physically attracted to) and made out with, but never had the desire to do anything else with. i guess i'm kind of a chick in that way; sex isn't nearly as good for me when feelings aren't involved.
     
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  6. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    i didn't do this for bragging purposes but to actually look at your sexual history from a certain perspective.
     
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    Does it count if the first two are the same person? :o
     
  8. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    are you still in love?

    i guess you could downgrade from in love to care about...so its possible
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :mamoru: I love how that's a "chick" thing...To actually care who you sleep with and have standards. Be proud that you don't fuck everything with a vagina.
     
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  11. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    IMO its considered a chick thing because men tend to view sex as conquest..

    most euphemisms we use for sex have violent connotations..
    "i'd smash her"
    "I beat that pussy up"
    "knocking boots"
    etc..

    and having any kind of emotion for it is considered weak or feminine.
     
  12. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    wow..you've had 10 girlfriends (assuming you're a guy)?
     
  13. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    i get the feeling that some women are going to be afraid of being percieved as sluts or hoes if they answer the question...
     
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    :eek3:
     
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    Yea, it was on the downslide... we are no longer speaking.
     
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    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    you were in love 4 times?
     
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  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I love my boyfriend to death....but I think the term "making love" is lame :dunno: We have sex, tender and roguh, that's it.
     
  23. AlextheDroog

    AlextheDroog Come and get one in the yarbles, if ya have any ya

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    see..here we go..lets not confuse the rules..

    for THIS subject making love is the term used for sex with someone you are IN LOVE WITH..

    IMO a lot of bad situations arise because people use the term MAKING LOVE to broadly.

    if you're IN LOVE then the act of sex with your mate is MAKING LOVE...

    (at least for the purposes of this thread)
     
  24. Mr. Bungle

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  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Meh. I still find the phrase really dumb.
     

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