MIL question about dependants *recently engaged*

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  1. mikdavi84

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    I proposed to my fiance on tuesday, and we are going to be starting the process of getting married within the next few months.

    What I was wondering is if I can claim her mom as a dependent. She pretty much supports her mom right now, because her mom is old and does babysitting for a living.

    I figure it would be easy enough to get off post housing but we both would rather live on post, due to the fact that maryland is expensive and the apartments and houses around here are ghetto as fuck.
     
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    Get a place in Laurel dude, there are some nice ones.
     
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    meh :hs:


    still doesn't answer my question. Besides, on post housing would be a hell of a lot more convienent
     
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    scottiemac It's time to shoot some hot dogs!

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    I'm not sure but I do think it is possible if your fiance supports her mother and there are documents to prove so.
     
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    congrats btw
     
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    Do you have to mow your yard when living on base?
     
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    oh and does citizenship have anything to do with it? her mom is peruvian
     
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    Congrats on the engagement. :bigthumb:








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    Jyokker The trouser snake is very aggressive. It will corn

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    :bigthumb: A+ would read again!
     
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    Congrats! :bigthumb:

    Will her mom be living with you guys? Does she have a social security number? By you saying she is Peruvian does that mean she isn't an American citizen? If not then I assume she is in this country legally, but apparently not on a work visa?
     
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    Jyokker The trouser snake is very aggressive. It will corn

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    You will have to indicate this on any SF86 or electronic version... if you are gaining or renewing a clearance.
     
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    the raging enigma If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidenc

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    After you are married, you may be able to claim her, as long as nobody else is. They may even make you do a family care plan for an exceptional family member. I do know that there is a lot of paperwork involved.
     
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    depends on where you live. We had a yard in Pearl Harbor in base housing and I was responsible for it.
     
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    came here legally, visa is expired though. No social security number, just a tax ID number used to pay taxes.
     
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    yeah i wondered about the clearance ramifications....doesn´t bother me at all as I know other people with foreign wives and its not a problem. All I´m worried about is her mom.
     
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    bueller?
     
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