ok, so it's been a veeery long time since i had gotten any action. a girl that i'm really close to just got out of an almost year long relationship about a month and a half ago. we were talking one night about how we were sexuall frustrated and decided that we would hook up. so the first night all we did was make out and i felt her boobs through her shirt. the second time we had been laying in bed watching a movie together and both of us ended up naked. i fingered her and she gave me a hand job. later she asked if we were "friends with benefits" and i could tell she didn't like that idea, probably because she thinks it will make her sound slutty. we were talking about the situation yesterday though and i asked her if she regretted it and she was very adamant in saying no. she said if she regretted it then she would tell me. i kind of want to have a relationship with this girl. i mean, i've been really close to her for the past 5 years now. i would be fine with the whole benefits thing continuing though and i definitely don't want to scare her off. how should i approach this? what should i do? cliffs: close friend (girl) for 5 years. we messed around twice, she doesn't regret it at all. i sort of want a relationship with her but would be fine with just keeping things like they are now. what do i do?