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Describe the manner by which you are "in love" with your SO

  1. Im in love with my SO. Sometimes they piss me off & I may not [i]like[/i] them but I still love them

    51 vote(s)
    91.1%
  2. Im in love with my SO but only sometimes. There are definite times when I am not "in love" with them

    5 vote(s)
    8.9%
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    This poll is for people who meet the following criteria:

    1. Are in serious, committed relationships (dating a while, engaged, or married)
    2. Are in love with their SO



    This poll was inspired by a comment I saw in another thread.

    Sit back and relax, poll options are coming.
     
  2. Falconer

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    Part 2:

    For those of you who picked the second option, please explain your thought process to me.
     
  3. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    wtf. option 1. duh.
     
  4. Thelonius

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    I'm pretty sure real love doesn't just turn on and off in normal people. It takes awhile to build and awhile to fade in my experience.
     
  5. Elfling

    Elfling New Member

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    Add to this, love and "being in love" can be very different.

    I picked option 1 for what it's worth, but I don't even feel like my bf pisses me off really ever- flashes of annoyance but they're not even worth getting riled up over.
     
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    Ive always loved my SO. I may not like her sometimes, or I may get bored with her, but to solve that I just suggest we go do something fun together, and in no time, I find the love I had for her the first day we met, as corny as that sounds. Yeah, she may piss me off, or we may not always agree, but I still love and care for her.
     
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    Bacardi 151 New Member

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    1. Always.
     
  8. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    Definitely 1-- I can't understand how someone could experience the 2nd...
     
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    beer you picked 2 right?
     
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    no matter how much my SO pisses me off i always still love them no matter how much i hate them at the moment
     
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    Boudreaux Active Member

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    i want to know the results!
     
  12. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Man, my SO pissed me off something fierce last night and I'm still balled up over it this morning. :rolleyes: :mamoru: But it doesn't for a second change the type or intensity of my love for him.
     
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    i picked 1. he can frustrate me sometimes, but i have never stopped loving him, even if he happens to be bothering me at the moment.

    this is the first relationship i have been in where its been like this too. i have never once questioned if i still love him when ive been frustrated, while in previous relationships, i did
     
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    Nate?! NO WAI
     
  15. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: Not the first time. Won't be the last :mamoru::mamoru::mamoru:
     
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  17. Falconer

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    :rofl: bou hahahaha
     
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    :rofl: @ viewpollresults.jpg

    What's the backstory/reasoning on this poll Falc?
     
  20. Falconer

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    in one of my threads, another poster made a comment along the lines of it being normal to not be in love with your SO all the time.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    No. You boys just didn't understand my comment because you don't understand women and emotions.
     
  22. Abomb

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    oh girl, i was just givng you shit because you are cute
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :squint::hs:


    I was just trying to say that a lot of women, when highly emotional/irrational will say literally anything that they don't really mean. I've heard girls flat out say "I HATE YOU!" when they are upset even though they don't truly hate their SO. Women in labor curse out their husbands because they are emotionally going nuts.

    My point originally with Falconer was that his ex was highly emotional in the moment of him breaking up with her and for him to then make her clarify that she was "in love" with him after she clearly said she loved him I'm sure she was just fucked in the head over the whole situation and said something she didn't really mean.

    Bah, I'm tired of this subject! It's over, done.
     
  24. OniMinion

    OniMinion ...recalls when this forum was actually about cars OT Supporter

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    Unless their breaking up with you.:p
     
  25. Abomb

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    which falconers gf was pushing for - a break up
     

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