This isn't just about girls but meeting new people in general. In another thread I was talking about transferring to OSU not because I am really having social problems but to kinda force me to get out of my comfort zone of just chilling with the guys. Because, being with the guys is the problem to a certain extent. If you just get in the habit of chilling with the same group of people all the time then you will never meet anyone new. Even if the group is social it really prevents you from becoming part of other groups vs being lone star somewhere. I have really notice being alone somewhere really helps you establish better connections with people then when you are in a group. Especially with girls because everyone in the group is going to compete for that one girl. I have notice the friends that are the most successful with girls don't chill with a group of guys but are very independent in everything they do and establish many new connections everyday solo and that is the key. I mean think about it, when at school you make a ton of friends or at work but how many friends do you make chilling in a group? Not many because a group of guys deters interaction from solo people and prevents bonds to be made friendship or more. Not saying I blame anyone for my problems but I am saying environment shapes just about everything about you and until now I didn't really think about the negatives of going out and getting wasted with the guys..