Pussying out

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  1. Leftychang

    Leftychang OT Supporter

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    So I know there was that 3 second rule about seeing / approaching girls. Basically go up and approach them head on (not from the side) within 3 second of seeing them or don't at all because then youll look creepy lurking.

    Last night a coworkers bball team needed me as a ringer to help them be competitive. I show up and razzle dazzle the team (im 6'5" and just jump over people). Toward the end of the game, i notice a really tall fit attractive girl (6'3") just waiting for my game to end. im playing my game still, but i also cant help but notice her, i mean shes 6'3" slim blonde cute athletic ...

    after the game ends she comes on the court to shoot as im walking off, and she says to me "nice moves" ... then i just make eye contact with her and totally freeze up! she probably thought i didnt speak english or something ahhh

    the above situation caught me off guard, but i had no idea what to say! i guess i had overthought how to say hi to her so much that when she spoke to me i just got shocked.

    am i just a pussy or what? how do you muster up the courage to not just talk, but to talk playfully/flirt ... especially with girls so good looking it intimidates you ... i mean its not just me right? some 8s, 9s and 10s are very intimidating because of their beauty
     
  2. kiri

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    just respond like you would to anyone :dunno: say "hey, thanks!" and maybe conversation will grow from there.

    and :roflwtf: at "approach them from the front, not from the side!!" we're not horses :rofl:
     
  3. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    dud approaching directly from the front is usually too intimidating. You want to approach so that the girl can see you, but not directly at her; you'll scare the poor girl
     
  4. mrchina

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    You shoulda asked her if she wanted to play a game of PIG :wiggle: Next time you know. It's a fun way to have light conversation and shoot around.
     
  5. Pringles

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    your seriously tripping over this man. She said you were good at basketball. She complimented you. All you had to do was say thank you if you wanted to leave. Or say wanna shoot around if you wanna play with her and get to know her? You didnt need to say "O my dunk is stronger than Shaq" or some "manly" shitty pun of some sort. She is human not wit rater.
     
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    should have challenged her to some type of basketball game. 1 on 1 or HORSE or something.
     
  7. kiri

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    i usually respond best to men who approach at a 43 degree angle
     
  8. Let me get out my protractor :rofl:
     
  9. Leftychang

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    lol ok maybe not from head on, but from what i remember in reading neil strauss's book he mentioned that u dont want to sneak up on girls in approaching, you want your body positioned facing her, but to also put a time limit / make it look like u could leave at any moment ... of course that was for bars

    ... ill try to play the next game when their team plays my team and not be so off guard lol
     
  10. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    you remember wrong.

    furthermore, the book leaves things out and is a novel not a pickup guide
     
  11. antihero

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    lol.. social stuff is, at the heart, an art not a science. While perspective may make a better painting, plenty of great art got created long before they figured out how to do it correctly.

    "the Code is more what you'd call "guidelines" than actual rules"

    and to kick a dead horse, the first guideline that supercedes all others is don't be a pussy. Even after you had walked out of the room, she had a high enough interest level that you popping your head back in, smirking and challenging her to a game of horse would have been cute. she would have had her "oh, he thinks im ugly" thing going on and she would have lit up like a Christmas tree.
     
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    talk is often an excuse to display body language. you could have said nothing interested but given off a cool vibe and succeded
     
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    should have thanked her and asked if she played a lot or something like that

    then play 1 on 1
     
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    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    :rofl:
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    She was probably excited to find someone taller than her.
     
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    :rofl::rofl: at that being your first post and last sorry for bumping this thread, I some how saw this favourited in the favourites.
     
  18. Falconer

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    Dude it happens to everyone. Learn from your mistakes and don't allow it to happen again.

    edit - ^ holy thread revival.
     
  19. jared_IRL

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    Nice response! You nailed this one. Just saying 'thanks' would have been better than not responding!

    :wiggle:
     
  20. eskarinna

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    like " Nice boobs"
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    BEAST IS BACK
     
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    i swear he has had more ae/name changes than anyone. :rofl:
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Read above quotes. i dangled you=Beast
     
  25. XaPU!M

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    Oh, yeah his name has changed, but still has his posts reset to one. He isn't back until that moves. I imagine he figured that out though and made a new account so no one is able to know it is him.
     

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